Why is my one night stand still interested in me?

[Anonymous]

I slept with one of my sister’s friends that I met the same day after going out (they were visiting, he lives NY I live in SFo). He told me to text him the next day bc we were gonna see each other, but I didn’t text him so he texted me first. Slept with him that night again and we both knew we were not going to see each other again. He kept on texting me, and now he has started calling me at night and telling me he likes me. I know he likes me, but I’m confused because guys normally don’t care or ghost a girl they slept with the 1st night they met her. What could’ve possibly made him still interested? Just asking to understand because I really like him too but we live very far

[FlutteringFeelings]

One night stands and friends with benefits aren’t interested. There are no strings attached and the person who ends up catching feelings first is screwed. You’re apart of the guys rotation when someone is unavailable they’ll call your phone. A man who is genuinely interested isn’t going to center his interaction with you just for sex. He’s interested alright, in the sex.

[Asker]

Well that’s hard to believe because we live very far and he knows that he won’t be seeing me in a long time in person. So it would be pretty dumb to call me every night to ask me about my day and text me just to have sex in 6 months?

[RoccRaider24]

It's hard to say, since we know nothing of the level of connection between the both of you. But you could try to bring that up but I recommend you discuss this with him at least through phone call not through text. I do recommend you sort of do the 21 questions next time. Ask how he feels about dating. Is he interested in a relationship or if he's just trying to hook up. It's best to get an understanding on what you both are looking for out that encounter.

[spartan55]

He liked the sex and is hoping for another round. And NO, it doesn't matter that you live so far apart.

[Anonymous]

Why have a one night stand to begin with? Dumbest shit ever.

[rod23]

He likes you because the sex was great maybe it was his first time
Long distance relationships can be tough but if you care about each other you will work it out

[Waldoe]

sometimes when 2 people meet, it is just "Right" it doesn't matter if is in Church or in Bed... if you want to have a relationship... then "go for it"... long distance is difficult, but not impossible

[Yellovv]

I think you have nice body also you have tight one, that's why he want you again...

[AviatorTom]

He's interested because the sex is good.

[exitseven]

h likes you. end of story.

[HarryFortis]

He just wants to fuck you again

[Wonderer12]

He must have really enjoyed himself

[Anonymous]

You didn't make it clear you were just a skeezer.