Girls, When she plays games, is she actually interested?

[Anonymous]

Interested

Not interested

[Anonymous]

Playing games you're not interested in sounds stupid unless you're getting paid or something.

In a game, you usually have 2 outcomes- win or lose.

What games are you talking about here?

Playing hard to get? I think the odds are more in favour of not interested. She could also be testing the waters so to speak. Although I wouldn't call that a game.

[Opinion Owner]

Being receptive of some things and not others? Depends on how certain actions are perceived. You could probably make a decent guess on what would get a warmer response if you know them enough.

[Asker]

Well... just like the poll results are saying, I kind of lean in the direction of her just not being interested.

The main thing for me is that she prevents other women from talking to me but then doesn't make any effort to connect or spend time with me. She has enough opportunities where she does things that she knows I'm also interested in doing that if she wanted me along, she could invite me.

So, I can assume she doesn't want to connect with me romantically, which is fine because I've already seen a bunch of immaturity red flags from her. But I don't appreciate her making it hard for me to connect with other women. AndI really don't see any good way to confront her about something like that. There's some life situations that make alienating that relationship a bad idea.

If she doesn't want me, whatever, that's fine. But don't make it hard for me to connect with a woman who does! lol

[Anonymous]

Games, what like Scrabble?

[Asker]

Obviously not lmao

Games like going hot and cold or playing hard to get