Why would women who seem more confident and their life together than me, give me the love gaze and attention?

[NicholasRedone]

After all, aren't I a loser to the likes of those women above my league lol - "like really lady, you want me, Nicholas, a humble, quiet, basic loser"

[dreamstar72]

Just saying maybe she looked below the belt first then she looked into your eyes and smile. Could mean a variety of things

[NicholasRedone]

@dreamstar72 hmm in other words just lust nothing more lol? And not actioned on lust / eye candy only. Look I can appreciate that - men are just the same looking at women they'll never ask or see again lol yet they stared or glanced and kept on walking by

[dreamstar72]

@NicholasRedone True but it sure would be nice if like the old saying “looking into someone’s soul, and finding their true self”. It would save lots of problems.

[NicholasRedone]

@dreamstar72 most helpful : man the real problem in life and I think this is the tale as old as an old book - the women just eyeball, the men are usually clueless, and no one wants to actually directly be direct

[NathanDavis]

do you go around holding cheesecake by any chance...

[NicholasRedone]

@NathanDavis they must just be desperate or im usually misreading people sigh

[Booboolove69]

Bc you seem like a sweetheart
Confident women like men that are sweet
Being a sweet means you’re kind and genuine