In your opinion what’s the most attractive skill a woman could have and why?

[caitycat21]

[WonderingManII]

I go with Nurture. Here is how google defines it.

"Nurture" primarily means to help something or someone grow, develop, or succeed. It can refer to providing care, nourishment, and protection, especially for young things like children or plants, or it can refer to fostering something like an idea or a relationship. In psychology, "nurture" is often used in contrast to "nature" to represent the influence of environmental factors on development.
Here's a more detailed look at the concept:
Key aspects of nurture:
Care and protection:
Nurture involves taking care of something, providing it with food, protection, a safe environment, and other necessary resources.
Development:
It's about fostering growth and development, encouraging someone or something to reach their full potential.
Support and encouragement:
Nurture also involves providing support, encouragement, and motivation.
Fostering relationships:
Nurture can be used to describe the process of cultivating and strengthening relationships, both with people and with ideas.
Environmental influence:
In the context of psychology, nurture emphasizes the role of external factors, such as family, environment, and experiences, in shaping an individual's development and behavior.

[NicholasRedone]

@caitycat21 If we're speaking about the type of "woman" that I would "go for" then there's a high expectation from me (and I fit this description also myself) - to look hygienic, clean skin, natural pale complexion, keeps hair clean and neat and shines through her personality and her pretty face and wears attire that flatters her and suits her.

If something is off, just like my spiky hair having a flat hair day - something's not all there 🚫 and then it's a No Deal lol briefcase gameshow joke 💼 lol 😆

[NicholasRedone]

@caitycat21 I mean there's always tomboy women and non straight women and butch and bitchy women - I for one like a humble down to earth woman who's an actual woman these days + mascara, eyeliner - actually puts efforts into it - and manages a flat stomach without even hitting the gym or dieting 👀😋👌🏻🤭

[NicholasRedone]

@caitycat21 I mean a good example is, you see that avatar from that slightly off Juliet movie right? Now fast forward to when the actress is 20 or whatever older and still has clear or clean skin or foundation masks it all up. Throw in some mascara or eyeliner. Nails painted or not. Hair is clean. Doesn't smell or seem trashy/manly.
That's qualities the same way women have a list of expectations - a man who smells of Body Odour and Styles poorly ain't gonna get a woman's eyeballs

[midnightmoon05]

Being able to connect with him emotionally, psychologically, medically, spiritually… without these… it will not be so good even if she can cook, care for kids, do things for him, etc…when we understand the needs from our man, we are his priority.

[katiesmuff]

Having a good mind and using good judgement, not becoming just a follower.

[DannyUk2017]

They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach...😉

[HawkPerception]

A lot of the answers here went with personality traits rather than "skills" as mentioned in the question, and I haven't seen any responses to them. As I'm unsure of how to answer, I'll just answer with both.

In my opinion, the most attractive skills a girl can have are being extremely flexible, like in the sense of yoga. It's really attractive physically. Being able to dance well is the same.

I'm not going to say cooking, because I think every adult should learn how to cook to live. It's not hard to YouTube a video and attempt to make it. It saves you money, and people appreciate you for it.

As for personality traits, I'd say being kind and warm is one of the most attractive. The way she smiles with genuine kindness, the way she's receptive to everyone who approaches her.

As an example, I saw a lady who was older than me today while walking in the grocery store, and I liked her dress, so I paid her a compliment, saying I loved her dress. She just coldly nodded and barely even looked in my direction. I had no intention of hitting on her and just wanted to pay the compliment. But that response was extremely unattractive, and I got slightly irritated. Is it so hard to just be kind and say, "Thank you! I appreciate that!" with a smile? Warm and kind cannot be emphasized enough.

[mstbooblover]

One particular skill making a woman attractive? Would that not rather make her interesting in some way instead of attractive? Sure of course that the ability to prepare nice dishes and take care of the household may make her interesting, but don't you think there's more about a person before them becoming attractive?

If really it's about skills, then I'd say this is more about a whole set of caracteristics and tendencies that would be involved.

[NicholasRedone]

@mstbooblover hygiene. There's a skill. 🫧

[mstbooblover]

@NicholasRedone I'm not convinced hygiene to be a skill, but rather an evident basic occupation on behalf of everyone. Still, yes, a minimum hygiene remains a necessity ;0)

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure if it’s co spidered a skill but just being feminine. Because if she’s feminine, chances are she’s going to have all the other qualities I’m looking for in a partner. Me sing she’s nurturing, she cooks, she cleans, she loving, soft spoke, etc, etc.

[RavVid]

It is pretty rare but an intuitive sense of touch. There have been a couple of girls who have just seemed to know.

[ohsheeT]

There's know way I could just pick 1 because it's who she is so it would all blend together can't have one with out the other and so on and so on

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Aside from wit ? Well, wit.

[andreasderjuengere]

Creative energy.

Nothing is more boring to me on the long run than a partner who only repeats things day after day.

[DJB72]

Being able to put up with me. I'm hell to live with

[chocolatetwopointo]

we can tell

[NicholasRedone]

@DJB72 Parker, the rent is due 👀😋 again lol 😆

[DJB72]

@chocolatetwopointo you have no idea

@NicholasRedone I don't know Parker!

[Ariesman81]

Knitting is right up there. There's just a good feeling you get when seeing a woman knit something. Reminds me of Grandma.

[SotiCoto]

Assassination.

Like your avatar pick by the way. Olivia Hussey is always welcome.

[Anonymous]

Cooking. It's rare to find a woman today who can cook well.

[chocolatetwopointo]

its not, everyone can cook

[Opinion Owner]

@chocolatetwopointo If you think everyone can cook, it's obvious your standards for what qualifies as "cooking" are extremely low. Not a surprising coming from you though.

[chocolatetwopointo]

hopefully everyone without a disability can follow a recipe.

[Opinion Owner]

@chocolatetwopointo I'm sure you are very talented at boiling water so you can make your signature mac n cheese.

[chocolatetwopointo]

can u not follow a recipe or smth? everyone can do that = meaning everyone can cook.

[Opinion Owner]

@chocolatetwopointo Your ignorance and naivete is astounding.

[chocolatetwopointo]

everyone can cook, stop being delusional

[Opinion Owner]

@chocolatetwopointo The only people who think everyone can cook are people who don't know what it means to cook.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then explain cooking to me lol

[Opinion Owner]

@chocolatetwopointo There are a ton of skills someone needs to have to know how to cook that go way beyond just reading a recipe. I mean sure, you can read a recipe for how to make a meatloaf and make a decent one, but you'll never make anything good until you learn those skills. That's why chefs go to school... to learn those things. Most women in the past learned those skills from their mother. Not so anymore for more women, which is why they can't cook. Sadly most of them think like you..."I can cook because I can read a recipe".. LOL!

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u want ur girlfriend to be a chef? and no, mothers didn't teach women the same things people learn at chefs schools

[Opinion Owner]

@chocolatetwopointo Nope, I don't need her to be a chef. I just want her to know how to cook reasonably well. I'm a good cook myself so I know what it takes and what is involved in learning to cook well. I don't expect her necessarily to cook as well as I do, but I would like her to be interested in improving her cooking game, and to enjoy and appreciate truly good food, not the garbage someone like you would make.

And yes, mothers absolutely used to teach their daughters a lot of the skills and knowledge chefs must learn. I wouldn't expect someone like you to have any clue about that, but for fuck sake don't be so ignorant as to think anyone can cook well if they have a recipe book. When you say that, you come off as a complete moron to anyone who actually knows how to cook reasonably well.

[chocolatetwopointo]

give me an example of a skill ur chef should have.

no they didn't. they were given a cook bok and then left alone.

[Shiprex]

Being a conscientious wife.

[Sal_Monella]

Cooking. No explanation needed.

[Tempest_Flame]

how are skills "attractive"?

[Anonymous]

Kung Fu, Hapkido, and Ninjutsu.

[Glenzyone]

Asking for sex dailie

[Agape93]

Shooting. Love it

[chocolatetwopointo]

making money