Dominant girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is athletic and muscular and getting much more dominating in her attitude toward me. How should I deal with this?

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+1 y

yea ... we've only gone out on a couple of dates and I like her a lot. But she works out constantly and I don't. It bores me. I get the sense she thinks she's stronger than me and has already started to talk down to me. We had shorts and went riding bikes. She loved the comparison of our legs even though she didn't say it. I like her ... but don't think I want her treating me that way ...

[Giogiogio2011]

NO.

I say this because it isn't based on her body or activities that dictate your question.

My Ex was very submissive and girlie But guess what? She was stronger then me

and worked out all the time. She was going into the Marines. So it always depends on the situation and person.

Honestly if she's just being herself and she was the dominate type you would know already. but

I also like these type of woman more because it is so much easier to treat her equally. Plus she won't think of you as a push over if you have the same level of dominance as well. No1 likes a pushover in a relationship.

[sfauo]

Physical dominance does not equal mental dominance. But of course you know who's in control of a relationship is an unimportant part of the bigger picture right..

[naturaldisaster]

I don't think so, just because she is muscular doesn't mean she will be more dominant of anything. She is just a person with a lot of muscles and is strong.

[karenirving307]

i agree with anonymous user don't judge a book by its cover haha

[naturaldisaster]

Work out buddy, if you want to be more dominant than her.

[Enishi]

Ohoho, actually that's hot. Setup for the best sex in the universe, when both sides are dominant and you don't know who's going to wind up on top.

[Enishi]

And, I don't care how muscular and athletic she is, I'm six foot one, 180 lbs, and a girl that had the balls to try and "dominate" me is a turn on like I've not really considered before.

[Blapsoi]

Accept it and support it, or don’t. If you’re both happy with the former, then leave.

[Anonymous]

Ask her if she's ever been mistaken for a man. Let us know if she says "No. Have you?"

[TomGarand]

Is that an "Aliens" reference?

[Anonymous]

as long as you're submissive, it's fine. How is the sex?

[Anonymous]

no. just cause she's muscular doesn't mean her personality will be

[RedBeauty87]

In bed dominance is good, out of bed, that would be a bit embarrassing. Tell her, honesty works best...or like these guys said grow some man muscles and get your dominance back!

[AltTech]

Start bulking up, or start trying on dresses.

[Kain6th]

LOL

[naturaldisaster]

wow lol

[big_jimy_pimp]

S&M... or you work out

[RyanRyanson]

You're going to have to kick her ass.

[Anonymous]

there can only be one alpha and that's not you

[Asker]

does she HAVE to be the alpha just because she works out?

[Caustic_Fox]

oh god if only I could have this problem

[Ezmotts]

Bulk up and take charge.

[stevo]

Put on more muscle.