Should I confront him?

[Chrissywakeup]

My friend often says things that make me and other people uncomfortable. for example, One time one of the boys asked our teacher for the class ball and my friend said “Of course you wanna hold the balls” which made the boy really uncomfortable. Another time me and some female friends were discussing an upcoming field trip to the beach and talking about “female things” and then my male friend came over intruding on our conversation trying to relate to it even though he is clearly a boy. ALSO he makes really gross comments about peoples bodies and t0uches my female friend inappropriately. I may be overreacting.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It seems like you and your friends should all set boundaries with this person and only way you can do that is by telling him, for example next time he tries to touch someone, the person should tell him to stop touching or when he says something dirty tell him he's a creep and gotta stop saying creepy shit

[BarryLiverstone]

There is a diff between what people say and what they touch. Did any teachers see him touch inappropriately?

[Chrissywakeup]

No BUT other students saw and I saw

[Chrissywakeup]

He grabbed my friends but as they were hugging

[BarryLiverstone]

He grabbed their arms?

[Chrissywakeup]

Correction: my gay friend grabbed my female friends butt as they were hugging

[Chrissywakeup]

They have a “fake friend marriage” but she doesn’t like him touching her

[BarryLiverstone]

Did he apologize to her?

[Chrissywakeup]

No, he didn’t.

[BarryLiverstone]

He needs to. So that she understands he felt bad and made a mistake. Because now she may worry he will do it again.

[BarryLiverstone]

Imagine how you would feel if you were her..

[Chrissywakeup]

I would probably feel violated

[BarryLiverstone]

Exactly. And embarrassed, scared he would do it again

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Just pussy up and confront him. He’s not going to change without consequences to his behavior

[Chrissywakeup]

True.

[HusamRocks]

This indicates bad parenting, insecurity of the boy in his environment who is trying to show off by your mentioned actions of him.
Someone has to reasonably talk to that boy and make him understand what he does is wrong 👍🏻

[slatyb]

You are not overreacting. Unwanted touching is a crime. Call him out on it, loudly, and report it.

[TongueBlows]

You are not overreacting, that boy should know his limits when talking to others, especially to girls