What does it mean when woman tell you that they think you're a player?

[glennos89]

On several occasions woman have straight up told me that they thought that I'm a player.

But honestly I'm the exact opposite of being a player so I don't understand what they mean when saying that to me

[SueShe]

If you are the type of person that likes to flirt, then you have a reputation and that would be the typical answer by those you are attempting to flirt with. That is the back side of the medal. Don't forget that the definition of the word "flirting" is:

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

Also, if you are not discreet enough about the number of partners you had, this will also give you a reputation of being a player...