What gives a woman happiness?

[scott04sa22]

[MrOracle]

It depends on how she was raised. A woman who was raised grounded in reality is not difficult to make happy. Be a moral person with good values, have good communication, and do your part and let her do hers. Having a bit of ambition doesn't hurt, but don't abandon her to chase your ambition because that's not going to work either. You need to maintain some balance.

For a woman who was raised as a Feminist, which goes completely against traditional values and against nature itself, she's never going to be happy because she lives in a state of perpetual internal conflict, and has been trained to blame everyone else for her unhappiness. What she thinks she wants is almost never going to make her happy, and she was raised being told that she could have it all and do it all, even if those desires are diametrically opposed to each other.

There's no fixing a Feminist, especially one with college indoctrination - it's like buying a car with a frame that is rusted through in 6 places. Invest in the women with traditional values and leave the Feminists alone. You are better off alone than you are trying to make a Feminist happy - that's like try to fill a bucket of water with a teaspoon - and the bucket has a hole in the bottom.

Invest your time and effort in the women with traditional values. They aren't the flashy ones, but they will be your best investment.

[RavVid]

Hmmh, Mirrors a recent thought I had which is that it is a conceit to reject gender roles because it will bite you in the ass if you do. Your list under Feminist attributes are pretty clear. Anybody's life would be unhappy looking at that list.

Possibly accounts for why liberal women are generally more depressed. Also a long data series has always shown women to be happier than men... until recently. Now men are happier than women.

Women tend to jealous of other women's success according to a female psychology professor in a way that men just aren't. If you have done better than I have than I think well done - you worked for it.

But according to that prof, a woman's success makes other women feel really bad and I presume unhappy and envious.

Plus organically it seems that women are far more prone to depression at about twice the rate of men and at about 20% perecent for severe depression. Maybe that is due to high false expectations feminism sets or maybe it is brain chemistry or even brain structure.

It also seems women expect men to fix them and get more unhappy when an external solution fails to fix internal problems.

I was expected to fix a woman - not trying that again. The advice to choose a naturally happy and contented woman is good advice. Definitely avoid the 20% that are depressed.

[MrOracle]

@RavVid Left-leaning women (nearly always Feminists) are the least happy, most diagnosed with mental illnesses, and most medicated people on the planet. That's not a coincidence - they have been indoctrinated with ideas and policies that go against nature and against their own wants and desires, so they have to cope by living in constant denial and with the cognitive dissonance caused by the conflict between their beliefs and what their own eyes and ears tell them.

Look at the left's current big position: defending crime and criminals in Washington DC (and elsewhere). Complaining that Trump is enforcing the laws already on the books because the district's government has been refusing to do so for decades. And the results have been dramatic and FAST. You have Chuck Schumer saying "oh, I walk around DC all the time and feel perfectly safe" - not mentioning that he only goes around with a team of very-well-armed guards.

More and more people are seeing through the insanity, but for the true believers, all they can do is lose their minds when nothing goes as they thought it would.

[RavVid]

Our Left has done similar and got 14 yos doing home invasions as whatever they do they're immediately bailed. Entirely predictable that if there aren't any consequences they will do anything they like. Just this week despite a Left gov't reintroducing remand, a Left female judge bailed a very violent child offendor who was on bail when he offended again.

These Left ideas are global across the Left. Our Left is also introducing an unrealized profit tax that we first heard from Kamala. It is not just the US. It is the Global Left we are dealing with.

There is a chicken and egg issue. Are left leaning women mentally ill due to left beliefs or do mentally ill women tend to become left leaning? Thoughts?

[MrOracle]

It's both, but the majority is that they are being indoctrinated - "made" essentially - and then their minds melt from the contradictions. Certainly, those already mentally ill will be attracted because Feminism was always designed to appeal to FEELINGS rather than facts or logic. But that's also why more women are left-leaning than men: most men's lives ground them in reality, while far fewer women are grounded in reality today. The left only has power because they use emotional appeals to trick people into voting against their own best interests.

[RavVid]

That is a very good way of putting it. The Left are hysterical thinkers i. e. emotional reasoners. So it is not surprising that women are more particularly attracted to that side of politics.

I do think we should point out and denigrate emotional reasoning as bullshit. They'll probably get all hysterical about it - they certainly have been lately.

[BobbieBoy666]

My inner woman is happy when she is wearing Maxie dress.

[Rides_Big_Guys]

What gives a woman happiness is when she has the emotional, mental, educational and skill set to build her life weather it be big or small without a guys help

[Simslover92]

I can't speak for all women but I know many of us just want to find someone to love and that will love us with the same intensity that we love them.

[capriVib]

It makes her happy to be attached to the strong man she loves, with whom she feels feminine by his side.

[Agape93]

Depends. What makes @AmourHoney happy, is very different than the shit that makes me smile.

[AmourHoney]

🫶🏼🫶🏼

[Agape93]

@AmourHoney <3

[Flowersareawsome22]

A mature guy who takes things seriously and he isn't a momma's boy. Plain and simple!

[Unycorn]

Ask the poor people eg. India. Those who dont have much know what makes happy. I tell you a secret

[Purpleronnie]

If I knew the answer to that I’d be the rushes of all men

[Purpleronnie]

*richest ….

[Ironco]

If a guy only knew?

I woman will never be happy, just except it.

Don't let them control you, but make them happy in the way they want to be... but good luck.

[Seangreen]

They don't even know so this is a useless question

[melonbabyy]

Being taken care of emotionally, physically and mentally. Not babying her but taking some burden off od her shoulders. Makes men feel more like men and women feel more like women.

[Ariesman81]

Knowing in less than month, the Starbucks fall drinks come out.

[dustybiker2]

Stability. Balance is happiness for anyone.

[fantasticass]

Herself. Never rely on anyone for your happiness

[leahzrc]

I just want to be loved by Jesus

[Bloodparadise]

I'm a woman and I'm happy when others acknowledge my superiority

[OfDeath]

Cars, money, social status and secure real estate.

[Likes2drive]

Drama, gossip, always trying to find better and shoes

[Son_Goku59]

Finally someone who’s not speaking anecdotally. What all these other people are saying is cute, but that’s not the majority of woman in today’s age, this is.

[Likes2drive]

@Son_Goku59 I’m just being realistic because that’s what really makes them happy even if they don’t know it , I speak from experience

[queenofcardio]

Enjoying a stress free life

[Anonymous]

Money works every time, women are mercenary bitches.

[Anonymous]

Happy relationship I guess.

[DCVsMarvel2]

kids

[Chazmatazz269]

Money!

[Hellraiser1984]

Your money.