Girls, women; would you go to the gynaecologist's if?

[Anonymous]

Would you go to the gynaecologist (with a very good reputation) if...

1. He was your father/brother?

2. He was your partner"s father/brother?

3. He was a family friend?

4. He was your ex highschool classmate and you were good friends back then?

5. She was well-known for being lesbian?

[PretzelBeanie]

I feel that knowing someone as a friend or family member first would make it difficult for us to fill the doctor and patient roles properly. I would be okay with 4 and 5, but not with 1, 2, or 3.

[MemeSupreme]

besides for 5, no bc that'd be WAY too weird. i want that separate from people ik

like would you be okay doing any of those first 4 if it were a prostate exam lol

[Asker]

Well, I would not go to a prostate exam AT ALL.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Why not, he/she is still ending up in concrete if my lady complains.

[Abbycado]

Not my family member. Like if my dad was one. Usually, they have multiple in a practice. Some other options, not a problem. They are professionals.

[Beckybooboo]

Five probably wouldn't bother me but the rest would. In most cases, hospital's don't allow doctors to practice medicine on family anyway.

[Asker]

And what about a private praxis?

[jazzy34]

🤦🏾‍♀️ Going to the gynecologist isn’t for sexual reasons. So, sorry not sorry to ruin your sick fantasy. For now, a pap smear is the only test for cervical cancer. In its early stages, cervical cancer shows no symptoms. By the time cervical cancer starts showing symptoms, it’s unfortunately too late.

[Asker]

I never told there was anything sexual in it.
Just awkward, uncomfortable etc. And as the answers here show, there is something more in it thet makes it worse.
I believe, if you had problems with your ankle/knee/ear you would let your No1, 2, 3, 4 examine it. Maybe No 5 too. Because it would not be awkward.

[CherryLove007]

no not unless they were the last gyno's on the planet

[Asker]

Gee. Really? Why?

[CherryLove007]

Come on really dude?
There are sensitive issues surrounding women's health. We females have questions that are personal.
No doc i knew or know will need to be informed of my body or questions unless I am having a baby that second and no one else is available.

[Asker]

"There are sensitive issues surrounding women's health. We females have questions that are personal."
Yes, I think the same. Still, females always say that a doctor is a professional and not a man/a male/ and there's nothing in it.
That's why I asked these questions, I believe the answers justify my view: In my opinion, a gynaecologist's visit is special/awkward/degrading/uncomfortable depending on your taste. And the doctor is not 'just a pro'.

[CherryLove007]

correct and I have never gone to a male either
especially when female docs are there in the profession... just because of the knowledge they know about being with the exact anatomy... its just Common Sense

A lot of males have bad bed side manners too from all I hear and I always listen closely to females that will share their experiences.

[SaoirseS]

For 1-4, providers would not likely accept me for ethical reasons so it’s a non-issue. For #5 who cares, it’s a medical exam.

[Nikki1989]

Let's not take a saw to the branch we're sitting on, shall we?

[Anonymous]

1. Isn’t allowed. 2. No 3. Maybe 4. maybe. 5 . Hell no

[Asker]

What if No 1 was allowed, would you go?
Why would you not go to No 2 and 5?

[Opinion Owner]

5 . I’m not a lesbian and would be uncomfortable with a lesbian doing that and 1 and 2 That’s freaking freaking weird

[Asker]

Strange... Women always say that there is nothing special in a gynaeco visit. They are professionals, bla bla... With my questions I wanted to prove that it is not true.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s weird and creepy to let your family do that

[EmmaMary]

No to all the above.

[Asker]

Why? Women always say that for a gynaecologist a patient is just a piece of meat. A piece of work.
Well, it turns out that maybe not...

[EmmaMary]

"A piece of meat"? Fuck Off. smh.

[Asker]

"A piece of meat" - yes, I read it in a female's answer lately.

[Anonymous]

1. No. 2. No. 3. No. 4. No. 5. Yes.

[Asker]

Why? Females say there's nothing special in a gynaeco's visit. So there must be, after all, something special in it, after reading the answers.

[Opinion Owner]

Because I don’t want to show myself naked to someone I know? I don’t walk around naked in front of my friends or family at home either? Going to a doctor I don’t know and won’t see again is not the same as a friend or family digging around in my vagina. You don’t understand that?

[Asker]

You, females always say that a gynaecologist is not a man or a male, but a professional. So, is it not true?

[Anonymous]

I've never been to a gynaecologist.

[Asker]

The same could be asked with a urologist.
So, what do you think?
Would you go to to mum/sister; partner's mum/ sister etc?

[Opinion Owner]

Urologist is for both men and women.
Andrologist is a male version of Gynaecologist: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrology

Yes, I would go to mum/sister etc for medical emergency.

[Asker]

Would you even go for a prostate exam too?

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, yes, but I wouldn't like it, I've been to a prostate exam, it's not pleasant you know.
I suppose if the doctors were related to me, they would be more gentle.

[Asker]

Would it not be awkward if your sister did the prostate exam?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure, I have a brother. But I don't think it would be that awkward.

[Anonymous]

Perv spotted

reported

[Asker]

My question is provocative, yes, but if you take a look at answers, you will see, that it is more than interesting...

[Opinion Owner]

Noooo
You are a disgusting perv

[Asker]

Not at all, you are on the wrong path. (by the way... what makes the question 'perv'? Really)