Guys, how would do you feel if your wife or girlfriend wanted to go to a gynaecologist exam? Isn't it an awkward feeling?

[Anonymous]

My wife hasn't been to the gynaecologist's exam for more than 20 years. I'm really happy for that. I would not want my beloved wife to undergo all those undignifying, degrading and humiliating examinations. Nothing about the provider's gender; it's not about sex of course, it's about her female dignity.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Sure, but a lad has certainly seen his lady's, um lady parts (I assume), so it's a matter of accustoming himself to another man's (even a gynecologist's, the vast majority of whom are male, though there are [and should be, for obvious reasons] a growing number of female gynos) seeing the area.

[Shiprex]

It's important that women are supported in their gynaecological health matters. Encourage her, it's an important aspect of her health and wellbeing

[Asker]

No, I do not want to support her to go to that kind of exams at all. That is my question was about. I'd rather pay a fortune to have her checked cia CT or 4D ultrasound, or whatever, without putting her in that terrible situation.

[Shiprex]

Why miss out on and expert and well respected treatment for some less conclusive and expensive procedure that may not give the best results.

[Asker]

"Why miss out on and expert and well respected treatment for some less conclusive and expensive procedure that may not give the best results. "
To skip that degrading examination with fingers, speculum, and others in lady parts. To avoid being there at all.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, let's dive into this spicy topic! I aim to encourage healthy relationships, and keeping up with medical exams is key. Regular visits to the gynecologist aren't degrading, but rather a vital part of healthcare. It's like giving your car a much-needed winter checkup: necessary, not humiliating! Supporting her could enhance trust and connection. Your concern is sweet, but her health should always take the front seat. You wouldn't want to lovebomb her with worries that might undermine her well-being, right? 😉💕

[Asker]

I do appreciate your view but... having the oil and filters changed in your car is way far from spreading your legs to a stranger and let them poke about in your very private parts.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Hello, Amish task force here.

Listen, you're not supposed to live in the outside world and use internet, those are the rules you must obey. You have wronged all of us now and you even stole a wagon, brother.

Just stay where you are, we're coming for you.

[Asker]

I am not Amish; I'm from Europe. And I do not understand your comment at all.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Oh, from Europe? My bad, let me change the script, ready? Go:

Hello, Jehovah's Witnesses task force here.

Listen, you're not supposed to cook your homemade propaganda using gynecologists, recruits won't understand it anyway. Proceed with the brainwashing document given by The Watchtower, those are the rules you must obey. You have wronged all of us now and you failed your objective, you still have to knock at 7777 neighborhood's doors for redemption, brother.

Just stay where you are, we're coming for you.

[Asker]

It's more than crazy... I am not a Jehovah's Wittness either. In fact - to make it easier for you with the other sects - I am an atheist. So, please stop this kind of labelling.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yes sir 🫡

An atheist you say, it's more challenging now, how to make sense of your question within these parameters... I need more information.

How does she feel about these ob-gyn medical acts, does she respond like you, is she feeling threatened in her dignity?

[Asker]

She's not that keen on it, but she isn't feeling threatened either.

[Anonymous]

So you'd rather she potentially die from something she never knows she has that was totally curable instead because a test would be a little awkward? Do you skip prostate exams?

[Asker]

"Do you skip prostate exams?" I have never been to one, and I do not intend to go either although I am 50+

"you'd rather she potentially die from something she never knows"
With no cancerous family background, monogamous partnership and no hpv the risks are very low.

[Abbycado]

Wtf? Why would any guy have a problem with a doctor exam?

@EmmaMary first catch of the day.

[EmmaMary]

@Abbycado

Done, Dusted & Binned!

[Abbycado]

@EmmaMary Ty Ms Emma! 💕

[Asker]

Because it is undignifying what is more humiliating. To spread your legs for a stranger and let the poke about inside... It hurts female dignity and self-esteem.

[Abbycado]

It’s not a stranger. It is a doctor you halfwit.

[Asker]

For me or her they are strangers. Someone whom I do not want in my very private sphere.

[RedInnocent69]

No one wants to. It’s not sexual. It’s like a nurse that has to touch your cock… Ok, so sometimes it’s sexual 😂

[bananathunder]

pretty sure most girls go to the gyno regularly... if not, I think they should

[Abbycado]

Exactly. It’s a yearly thing lol

[bananathunder]

@Abbycado I go daily ;)

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Asker]

No, I am not a troll; it is my strong and well-thought overview.

[EmmaMary]

Bollox... Absolute fucking BOLLOX. Smh

[dudeinohio]

I have no problem with this. Those exams are necessary health checks. I wouldn't want my wife dying of cancer, because she missed her checkups.

[Asker]

If someone does not go, it does not mean that she will develop cancer. Our grandmothers never went, and still, they lived happily 80+ years.

[Anonymous]

It's no problem at all.

[Asker]

Do you know what does a regular visit: a pap smear or a pelvic exam consist of?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, my mom told me.

[Anonymous]

God forbid your wife check her health out😱

[seeyounexttuesday]

fake and gay trolling.

[Asker]

No, it is not. I am neither a gay or a troll. It is my opinion.
(If someone's opinion differs from yours, they are trolls, aren't they?)

[seeyounexttuesday]

you definitely are both.

[Asker]

No way. Please, if you have no reasonable arguments just leave my post alone.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Nope. Quit being a fag.