How would you feel about your female boss acting like this and what would you do or say?

[Anonymous]

So... we were talking about piercings. Then surface piercings and she said something about she couldn't have her chest pierced because she plays with her boobs and would touch it too much before it healed.

😳TMI. No comment.

Then another time we were talking about bras not working well and she grabs her boobs and squeezes them while talking about bras. I turned my head. Didn't need the visual. I'm not gay. That was cringe in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

The first comment I agree could’ve been a bit tmi but the second one you guys were already talking about bras. Boobs go in bras.

[Asker]

I know that. I have my own. Why squeeze them?

[Opinion Owner]

You’ve got to be a very casual and comfortable group to be talking about bras at work, like that’s not a professional topic at all unless it has to do with your job. Same goes for talking about body piercings, I’m sure you don’t work at a piercing shop. Actually squeezing her boobs may have been a bit much, but I wouldn’t have found it like super unprofessional and shocking given the topic.

[WhitneySnow]

She’s either the kind of person who overshares a lot or she’s expressing interest in you

[jamesgoldman]

Exactly this, I'd say discreetly ask other colleagues if she's overshared with them because that will tell you which situation is occuring

[Asker]

@jamesgoldman it's just me and her.

[jamesgoldman]

Ah that's a problem

[Mariogirl09]

Lol she's just not that professional

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you got beef, tell HR.