Is it weird that im a virgin at 29?

[bunniesrcute]

all the time when i tell someone im a virgin they get surprised, i dont understand why🤷‍♀️

[Screenwriter]

Twenty-nine is rather late to be a virgin, unless you have religious restrictions or won't have sex until marriage. That's about all I'd think.

But why would you be telling people you're a virgin anyway? Sounds like a personal piece of information, not to be a topic of light conversation.

[bunniesrcute]

nah im not religious, just not interested. i only tell people im a virgin if they’ve ever asked if I've ever slept with someone, not just out of the blue

[Screenwriter]

And why would they be asking that unless they were just nosy. Again. Wouldn't say. That's a conversation to have with SO s or potential SOs... Who or if you've slept with anyone will not be weird if it isn't a fact you' reveal, except to close personal friends, or lovers.

Then your interest or lack thereof is important to discuss and THOSE people won't judge you harshly because they care about you.

[Anonymous]

We don't get surprised because you tell us every day using many different accounts.

[Joshydavid25]

Well because you're still young, but at the age where it's almost unheard of to still be a virgin.. Especially if you're not bad looking... It's not weird, just more of a surprise..

[bunniesrcute]

i am pretty bad looking

[Joshydavid25]

I mean, if that's true, then maybe they were surprised because of your age.. Why are you still a virgin if you don't mind me asking? Waiting for the right person?

[bunniesrcute]

why have sex if i dont want kids🤷‍♀️

[Joshydavid25]

Aw okay, so then you probably just don't have that high of a libido at all.. At least from the way you worded that.. But that's solid reasoning..

[bunniesrcute]

yeah i dont really care for it

[Berethor]

It unusual but in a good way, you can send me a message if you want, I would like to chat.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Hardon-Collider]

If you ever used a tampon, you are not virgin.

[bunniesrcute]

lol never used one but a tampon won't take virginity away🤣

[Orion84]

It's certainly not common, but I don't think it's weird, either.

[wkhan_87]

It is not weird , but it's kind late for marriage now

[bunniesrcute]

i dont want to get married.

[wkhan_87]

But why? Marriage is best for both

[bunniesrcute]

its not

[Anonymous]

No it's not weird, I' more than a decade older than you, and still a virgin.

[bunniesrcute]

a male virgin? tf is wrong with u? u got a micro penis or smth?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I'm just shy and introverted... I need a girl who likes to take initiative.

But all of my loves were unrequited.

The problem is:

Girls I like usually don't like me back
Girls who like me are usually not my type

[bunniesrcute]

okay

[seeyounexttuesday]

Not really. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

[Abbycado]

I don’t think it is.

[Anonymous]

No not weird at all. In fact it's actually quite honorable and desireable that you are

[bunniesrcute]

i dont want to be honorable or desireable? im not some sort of object.

[Opinion Owner]

No never said you were some object. It's a good moral quality and rare especially in today's fucked up society that's what I'm getting at. It shows good moral judgment

[Opinion Owner]

It shows you have a high moral compass that's what I'm trying to explain which is a good thing to have it's a good quality to have

[bunniesrcute]

no it shows i dont want to have sex. nothing more. stop assuming shit with no ground.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok geez no need to bite my head off

[bunniesrcute]

males.

[Opinion Owner]

What about them?

[bunniesrcute]

nothing

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah don't stress about it

[bunniesrcute]

im not

[DgBootley1]

Not at all

[beefcakebradybatson]

Not really, though it is uncommon.

[Anonymous]

I assume saving for marriage

[bunniesrcute]

im not getting married