Being a virgin is only cast as a negative stereotype because people assume you're a virgin because you don't have the option of losing it.
I'm a virgin. I've dated many women and had tons of opportunities to lose my virginity. I just choose not to. I'd rather hold out for "the one." As they say, the things worth while in life are never easily obtained. I can tell you it's a hell of a lot harder saying no to sex when you want it badly, but it shows that you have a ton of self discipline, will power, morals, and a very high standard of yourself. Those are the sexiest traits around. Forget what anyone else thinks or says. Live your life, not theirs.
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It’s not weird at all. No one really cares, if they like you. If you get a man to like you, he won’t care about a lot of different things. I can’t even imagine caring about a woman’s virginity in any large sense. Sure I don’t want her to have slept around TOO much but that doesn’t mean I want her to be a virgin as a requirement. I think it is a turn on to figure the woman you like is a virgin, for obvious reasons. If I knew the woman I liked was a virgin, it would be a turn on easily.
It's ok. Some married women wish they were still virgins. Hang on to it. Sex is a bad experience. Don't let men convince you its love.
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No, it's not weird. And it's probably more common than you think.
Relax.
Some guys might have a problem with it. Others won't care. For still others, it will be a turn on.
Good luck.It's never weird. Everyone has her own time and person she starts her sexual life with. No need to hurry just because society is full of very young people who already did that. If someone laughs at you because of that, he's a jerk that does not even deserve to know your name.
And no. I can't tell if a girl is a virgin just by look, smell or any other way ;)The average age for a woman to have sex for the first time is 20 - and it has been going up for about a decade now. So, allowing for statistical variance and individual differences - you are about the average.
No need to be self-conscious at all.Why should it be weird? It's your life. We sometimes attribute too much emphasis on having or not having had sex. Don't pay attention to such opinions.
It's not weird and I wouldn't laugh; however, I generally don't do nonsexual relationships. That said, the only way I could "tell"that you were a virgin is if you weren't very confident when things got physical
No its not weird at all, and i wouldn't laugh, id be relived cause im a virgin too i feel like its better if both partys are virgins cause then you can teach and grow with eachother and find out what you are both into sexuraly and find out together. Be gald your not a guy we freak out more about being virgins then ladies.
Most men in their 20s will be happy and excited. Taking some ones virginity especially in a good happy love relationship is something a man will cherish even if you don't end up together. I now as a man with children and a divorce don't like virgins but im also almost 30 and most virgins are young. And I don't like immaturity.
This guy personally wants.
You're a unicorn. If the right guy got you he could marry you and be honoured by your amazing grace to not have been broken in.No. And I doubt most would react by laughing. Some would probably prefer it that way. It probably does put a certain amount of pressure on the guy though.
Nope. There’s plenty of people not int sex yet at your age
Doesn’t really matter at all, he’ll some guys look for virgins. I think those guys are a little creepy but I’m just saying I doubt that anyone sees it as a negative necessarily
A little odd but not a bad thing. Men prefer women with a lower number of partners.
You're fine. There's actually a lot more than you think.
No it isn't weird. I too am an a virgin. They won't laugh.
They wouldn't know without prying. It's not a big deal really
It's not weird my dear. You're on the right track as long as you're not married yet.
No thats absolutely fine its ur choice to be virgin n its normal
No we have no idea that your a virgin unless we fuck and you pop
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