Am I weird for being a 21 year old virgin?

[Anonymous]

I’ve only ever dated one girl and it was only for about a month and things didn’t work out.. I feel like I’m super old to be in this position and it’s upsetting

Yeah, it’s abnormal

Nah, it’s not unusual

It’s not normal but you shouldn’t care

[AaronKrieger]

Just get yourself out there more and experience things. Start dating to see what you're compatible with. If you end up in a relationship, then losing your virginity will probably come with it.

However, I do not mean rushing into relationships or sex. It's just about getting experience, since dating teaches you a lot. It helps you SIGNIFICANTLY in future relationships, since your tolerance for relationship or even dating bullshit is low right now.

It's not very weird right now, but people will start expecting you to have experience as you get older. Again, do not rush into anything, but challenge yourself. You'll grow a lot from it even if you make mistakes or get hurt for a period.

[Sonorous]

Depends on your goals. If you're wanting to have kids then it's weird as in not productive to be a virgin since you typically have to have sex in order to have kids. But if you're not looking to have kids right now then it's not weird.

[HelpfulWoman]

YOU LITERALLY HAVEN'T BEEN LOOKING TO FUCK PEOPLE FOR AT LEAST 16 YEARS.
what the fuck is wrong with people.

[Asker]

What? I’m confused lol

[Sour-rose]

As the old folks say... you're just a kid.

Sooo no. :)

[MoonlightShadow1111]

Definitely not. Save it for someone you are actually in love with; you don't want to have any regrets and deal with any unwanted pregnancies, stds, etc. I'm sure she will appreciate it as well.

[rossafayza]

Some western people are weird I'd say.
How did you think like that?

I think it depends in your circumstances. For me, it's not weird. You are "a real gem" in this modern world/dating especially in the western.

[Chthou95]

Not at all man. Plenty of men are in your situation and male virginity today is more common than female virginity. If a 21 year old woman asked this, that would be weird

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Hell no, its not weird

[captain_voidwalker]

Your fine kid I didn't lose my v card till 27.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. 21 is still kinda young.

[Anonymous]

Today's modern times it's definitely not unusual