Is it weird to be 23 years old and a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Hi :) I just turned 23 years old, and I'm a female. I have never been kissed or been on a date or had a boyfriend. I'm still a virgin too. I've only been asked out twice all throughout college and grad school. I'm shy and quiet and most of my friends are girls. I really wish I could find love and find someone who loves me and wants to be with me. I really hope I find someone who thinks I'm beautiful that same way my friend's boyfriends and husbands do.

Do you think it's weird to be my age and still be a virgin? What do guys think about this? Would you think it's weird or that I'm a loser? What are your thoughts?

[Neurath]

Nope. I wouldn't even mention it to a man until your about to do it either. For the simple reason that some men will just want to break your virginity and run away. You sound too sweet for that. Just keep living life. You will find the right man. Being friends with other girls will bring many men to your table.

[Gegalix]

No! It is very desirable! The boys will LOVE you!

[Asker]

I worry a lot that I will never find someone that loves me or thinks I'm pretty. I worry I'm too ugly to be loved.

[Gegalix]

I guarantee you that there are plenty of guys DYING to meet a girl like you! Just don't give up! And don't settle for some loser, douchebag, player or poser!

[soccerchick4eva]

No way not even close to weird!
Just think of it as you're waiting for the correct guy to take it from you, who cares what guys think cause if they really care about you they wouldn't mind if you're a vrigin or not :)

[Anonymous]

You're not weird or anything. It's good to have standards and value yourself. It's pretty sad how much sex has been devalued by society. You're doing the right thing and you'll eventually find the right kind of guy.

[TheNewClassic]

Same here...

there's worse things than being a virgin. We are still very young, and most guys seem to like virgins, so dont worry too much. :)

[Tokana]

No, I don't think its weird that you're a virgin. Actually that's a good trait for a female to have. Man you must really think low of us men. lol

If you wanna judge you by simply look, then create a good ole 'rate me thread' and post a pic.

I'm not a virgin, have slept with more women than i can remember but that doesn't mean anything at the end of the day. Its not just about sex its about having a deep connection with the person. drakin right now.

[Roarke]

Tokana. Something for you to look forward to. I'm 57. Shear numbers of women are irrelevant, as oncoming dementia has rendered me unable to remember ANY.

[Tokana]

Strong post.

[Anonyblarg]

I'm about to be 23 and still a virgin as well. I have been on dates though, so I'm not a hand-holdless, hugless, kissless virgin, just no poon.

We're just at the point now where most people are starting to get into deep relationships and we're not. Its totally ok though, I don't want to be like a lot of my high school friends and have a kid and another person to take care of any when I'm any less than 25 years old. I want to get my own life settled before I take in somebody else.

[Roarke]

Wow i thought only people my age still used 'poon', but you kind of do us a disservice by not employing its full form... poon-TANG. So much more colorful, don't you think?
To the original poster... yeah, what this guy said.

[Keyspirits]

What is it so weird about being a virgin? I find it silly and funny of y'all gurls look at virginity this way. Be proud that u dont have diseases and siat and that u also have self-respect for ur body and not take it for granted. I like gurs who have self-respect for their bodies. Virgins are ma biggest turn on and they are ma fovorites! They are still fresh and delicious ;3
If ur dumb enough to get it over with just to "Fit in the group" than come to my house lol silly gurls x)

[Roarke]

Honey, if i were your age about the only problem you would have is knocking me senseless once in a while so you could finally go to the bathroom alone.

Are you kidding? You're a treasure. To hell with weird.

[Asker]

What do you mean by "knocking me senseless once in a while so you could finally go to the bathroom alone?" I don't get it.

[Roarke]

lol i just meant i'd be so in love you couldn't get rid of me... but i was talking if i knew you at 23... don't worry i'm far too old to go chasing women.

[nanthinee]

hello dear.. be cool you will find someone who love you true... i think god still looking for a good guy for you dear.. cool ok

[mario1321]

What do you mean by the same wqy your friends husbands and boyfriends do?

[Asker]

I mean that my friends' husbands love them a lot. They don't talk about their sex lives or personal lives or anything like that, but I know their husbands love them and give them everything.

[mario1321]

Oh, just be patient , you will find probably more men than you want, trust me your time will come.

[MissConfused93]

Uncommon? Absolutely.

"Weird?" No.

[Roarke]

i'm just inserting myself here. Is it my imagination, or has no one mentioned the fact that her innocent status, if not abused, might actually make her MORE attractive?

[MissConfused93]

Not all people will think that though. Some guys will run thinking sowmthing must be wrong with her or that she'll get too attached or something. Which is effed up.

[MyUsernameRules]

I'm on the same boat at 26.

[2240645]

i think ur one of most wonderful girl in world