Why turn on vanish mode?

[Anonymous]

This girl and i had some fun and she asked me to DM her the next day.

So after waking up I did but she acted uninterested, then turned on vanish mode and acted interested.

Why is that?

[Anonymous]

Ahhh damn, that sucks. It happens brother, spark for her probably wasn't as strong when she wasn't as 'excited' the next day. Perhaps, she's in a relationship and felt guilty about it or maybe she just doesn't see the point in investing further since you're worlds apart...

If you like her just continue DMing her. Don't be too pushy. See if there's a 'next time' where things get frisky again.

[Asker]

We were both sober and i as i was leaving she gave me her insta. I don't know really liked her.

But we are far apart, we ski in the same place and she suggested we meet with our friends. So seems quite alright on that part but just the vanish mode adds a bit of a no proof thing

[seeyounexttuesday]

on instagram? Probably by accident. It's really easy to turn on by mistake.

[Asker]

Yeah ik, but the way her tone got better after it i don’t think so haha

[WhitneySnow]

She probably lost interest the next day (probably wasn’t horny and either regretted what she did or at least wasn’t interested in repeating it)

[WhitneySnow]

She probably turned on vanish mode because she didn’t want to leave a record of any more sexy chats she might end up having with you.

[Asker]

Ooff

[Asker]

She was very engaged tho

[Asker]

Not to mention she lives across the world lol

[Nikki1989]

She changed the play, but why? Who knows. You would have to ask her.