I want to be a hot girl (woman) how to be it?

[Anonymous]

I kind of feel down because I feel like I’m not good enough… I kind of feel rejected by my coworker. He doesn’t really want to talk to me. But he seems to show more attention to my coworker who isn’t all that but I’m sure there are other qualities about her that’s great.

I guess he wants nothing to do with me … I don’t want to be a good girl anymore. I want to feel desirable, wanted…. Not loved.

I don't know how to be HER

[Finchie40]

Just because one guy isn’t interested in you it doesn’t mean every other guy will feel the same way, there are plenty of fish in the sea and beauty comes from the eye of the beholder , never change who you are as a person to appease anyone , you are more hotter when you accept Yourself for who you are and rock who you are as a person , eventually you will find someone that likes you for you

[Anonymous]

You don’t. If he’s not interested in you as far as who you are then why would you want to be w him? Assuming you’re a good girl. Now if you’re just a mess yourself, a lot of issues then I can understand why he wouldn’t want to be w you. But don’t try to be someone you’re jot.

[Asker]

I don’t. That’s why I said I’d rather be adored by every man

[Opinion Owner]

Which will only last for so long. You’ll feel lonely, empty inside, used. As you hit a certain age which isn’t far off those men won’t give you that attention.

[Asker]

What age would that be? I’m 28

[Opinion Owner]

For a lot of men you’re on that way to exiting that door. That’s not to say there aren’t going to be any men at all who won’t give you some attention. It just won’t be like it used to be when you were younger.

[Anonymous]

If he hasn't ever shown interest in you, move on. If someone does love you, you are both desired and wanted.

[Slave_submissive]

Just wear mini skirts

[Anonymous]

Have some fire 🔥 on you 😜