Why can’t she admit?

[Anonymous]

This girl and I have been talking, at first we had both said we were into eachother and saw eachother from time to time.

Then some things happened in her life and she started to go everywhere with her thoughts and opinions, we took some time and after reconnected and things went well. But she keeps being hesitant to meet me, and she keeps acting like i have huge expectations from her while i literally say i don’t and understand she needed some time.

But she doesn’t say what she wants and acts like it is me that keeps initiating. While it’s literally her, she just acts like she is just doing what i ask.

[Abbycado]

Why can't she admit what?

[Asker]

She can’t say that she likes me anymore, i keep asking why she does things. But lately i haven’t been getting anything out of this anymore, while I’ve been open with her and she’s been weird.

[Asker]

I have asked a couple of times if she isn’t into me anymore but i never get a useful answer.
She doesn’t say no, but she definitely doesn’t say yes either

[Abbycado]

"Then some things happened in her life"

That is the likely issue. Maybe after whatever happened, her perspective and outlook on things changed and she no longer sees you the same way.

[Asker]

The thing is she says she doens’t know this and that. But the way she acts, it seems like she really wants me.

She does certain things and sometimes says things that you don’t just say.
I had this girl making titkoks for me just a week ago

[Abbycado]

She says she doesn't know but you think she really wants you. Mkay.

@HollyK21 thoughts?

[Abbycado]

I think the whole "she really wants me" is in you head because that is what you want to believe.

[Asker]

I talked it over with a lot of people and they say it seems like she is into me. She has also mentions that she talks about us to her friends and this and that. Even talked about how our ‘marriage’ should go

[HollyK21]

Forget all that past tense nonsense, who said what, etc etc. As of today, or even yesterday, where do you two stand Asker? Because to me it sounds like whatever stuff happened in her life has changed all these feelings about you that she used to have.

[Asker]

I’ve considered breaking it off but everything i just mentioned to you was just last week and could happen anytime. She literally texted me ‘[friend] said she sees the two of us happening’
I guess she is just really volatile.

[Anonymous]

I guess she's a bit weird.

[Asker]

So it seems, wish i could unlike her sometimes