Why doesn't she open up with me?

[104755555]

One thing I have noticed with women is they always like to talk they never shut up. About all that's happening with them who they are it's annoying sometimes. With this girl though it makes things harder because she never seems to have too much to say and just wants to listen to me. I have known her a year but since she never talks it's like we just met I hate it she's not emotional or anything I like her but I give up trying to open her up maybe she just doesn't like me but we have been seeing each other a while and I'm not really in the friendzone or her girlfriend. I feel like she wants to please so she doesn't say anything but it just makes things worse. Why does she do this? Is she just not into me.

she's afraid?

she's not into me?

[thatboye]

I can sort of relate. Maybe she is insecure and shy herself, and isn't ready to open up to you yet. Sometimes it takes longer than others try and open up to someone. I am the same way sometimes, and it's because I have been done wrong by people too many times, and I only pick and choose who I want to be cool with, and who I don't. Just from my experiences.

[104755555]

Yeah I think she is but it's been a year we can't even take things farther because I can't get her to talk I think women need this

[thatboye]

I feel that. If you want to take things further, your going to have to be completely honest with her, and tell her how you feel. Yes it's a risk, but if you feel like it isn't going anywhere, then either accept the fact that she may not be interested and move on, or have patience with her, and get to know her longer.

[104755555]

Yeah your right I did and she got mad we both haven't contacted each other I never liked a girl more but I think I need to cut my loses I can't stop thinking about her though

[thatboye]

You must really like her then. You can always ask her why is she so quiet? Just let her know though that it doesn't bother you, or you can take the bold route and tell her straight up that it does, and see how she responds. You never know she could open up to you right then it worked for me.

[104755555]

I did bro I asked her why don't you open up and urged her to talk more she never really did I wonder if it's me but regardless this girl is a pain in the ass I wish I did fall so hard for her bro

[OrangeBoy]

Do the questions game. She asks you anything and you reply, then it's her, then you, them her...

The one that doesn't know what to ask, or to answer, have to give a kiss to the other person : )

[OrangeBoy]

You have to go slow, she seems afraid you think she's boring, she's on the defense...
Try to speak first about you... then, slowly push her to you.

But, man... don't give up on her because of that : /

[OrangeBoy]

That can be developed.

But, one thing is true. The more good things you both do together, more she will have something to share with you, and to kinda push other things about her past.

[OrangeBoy]

Go crazy and do different things with her. She will be happy as probably never was.

[104755555]

I try that's cool

[belindaskyler]

If you want to make the move, do it! Ask her out, most likely she will say yes.

If she doesn't, tell her the two of you can still stay friends.

[104755555]

I made a move I've been clear from the start

[belindaskyler]

Well did she say yes?

[104755555]

Yes I asked her she said yes I never said I like you but I asked her out and I didn't act like just friends from the start and she was never crossed to my advances but she also never defined the relationship I'm so confused

[belindaskyler]

You simply need to ask her if she wants to be officially your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel, and be sweet.

Most girls would say yes in such a situation. Be confident, be warm, and she's yours.

[Anonymous]

Not everyone likes to talk a lot. I know I like to spend a lot of time being quiet. It's just my nature. Perhaps she is like this too.

[104755555]

She's not shy at all its so strange in fact she's very bold for a girl so I'm so confused

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not shy either. There's a difference.

[XNicholeMariex3]

Perhaps she doesn't feel that she has anything interesting to say about herself.

[104755555]

I told her I don't care just say how your day is I want to listen and she tells me that she doesn't want to be negative or say the wrong thing so I just keep saying I don't care just say what you want but it never changes I don't think she can like me to bring things to the next level because she won't talk I don't know what I'm doing wrong I really like her but I can't win