If a girl says she wants to be close is it expected of me to ask questions to get to know her?

[Anonymous]

[Mariogirl09]

Men are the leaders of relationships while women are the leaders of sex

[Asker]

Okay how does that pertain to the question?

[Mariogirl09]

When i was younger I always let the boy lead... I open the door by smilling but he usually takes the lead. If she told you she wanted to be close that was her opening the door for you... now you proceed with questions or whatever or however you want. Be reciprocal meet her half way

[Asker]

I don't think this is a dating dynamic.

[Mariogirl09]

Then what is it? Are you just trying to smash?

[Asker]

Not at all. Up to this point its been more like a friendly dynamic although I'm interested

[Mariogirl09]

Then take the lead!

[bunnyboo24]

Yes ofcourse

[Asker]

Why is it not expected of her? If she said she wanted to be close should it be on her?

[bunnyboo24]

Both can show interest. Why dont you ask her something and see if she asks you something back

[In_Trance]

Why would you not?

[Asker]

I thought it was supposed to be reciprocal. She didn't ask me questions

[In_Trance]

So if she jumped off a bridge are you going to do that?

You do what you need to do to get the results you want and that's when your sense of value kicks in.
If you're not getting what you need in return then you walk away.