If a girl plays with the strap of her bra while talking to you... is she flirting or just nervous?

[milkmustache]

[_Maya_]

I am guessing that she is doing it subconciously and out of nervousness before I would guess that is an effective way of flirting. I don't know of a single girl that fiddles with her bra strap unless she is adjusting it and honestly we do that (if necessary) before putting a top on. It is rare that it needs adjusting anyhow. They can loosen with wear and washing but it isn't like I put it on each day and think whoa this needs to be adjusted. So I am guessing if a girl does that it is a nervous tick and nothing more. That would be a very strange way to flirt and not one I have ever used or would think of using. I don't know what point that would be trying to get across.

[milkmustache]

Honestly, I thought women adjusted their bra each time they put it on

[milkmustache]

If adjusting her bra is not flirting, is playing with her flirting?

[milkmustache]

If adjusting her bra is not flirting, is playing with her hair flirting?

[_Maya_]

Not really. Once you adjust them once they pretty much stay that way. Over time washing and wearing can cause them to change but that is not a daily problem. Also depends on the type of bra. Some never need or have any adjustment.

[_Maya_]

I would say playing with her hair is a nervous type thing too. However that is much more likely to be a flirty thing than playing with a bra strap so hard to say. Could be her flirting... could be nerves. Very tough to say without witnessing it.

[milkmustache]

Realize hard to say since you weren't there but I thought you might still have some insight as a women

[_Maya_]

It can be a way to flirt or draw attention to herself. I can't definitively say one way or the other. The impmortant thing would be if you noticed other signs as well.

[milkmustache]

Other signs?

[RandomGirl42]

For me, toying with my hair is just such a little habit I don't even realize I'm doing it most of the time. Like someone chewing their nails or something like that.

[milkmustache]

@RandomGirl42 what do you do when your flirting?

[RandomGirl42]

lol, it's been a long time but just little forms of very light touch, like a touch on the shoulder or a brief brushing of hands, standing close, bright smiles, long looks.

[milkmustache]

After reading what you wrote Im sure I've mistaked flirting for just being polite

[RandomGirl42]

Well, the smiles could be polite. I smile a lot anyway, but yeah, maybe you have. 🤷‍♀️

[milkmustache]

I smile a lot too

[milkmustache]

Can't believe you liked Nikis comment

[RandomGirl42]

I know a lot of people find her negative but I like her sense of humor. I find a lot of things funny. If u really stop and think about it all life is pretty funny so I figure I might as well laugh. 😊

[Nikki1989]

No, not flirting. Not even close, but at 34 years of age, you should have figured this out at least 15 years ago.

[milkmustache]

Im in too good a mood today to let your negativity get me down