Girls, is she flirting?

[Norwegian-man]

So i have been studying together with a girl for almost two years now, but we haven't really talked much or gotten to know each other. She knows that I am going to spend some time alone on campus this summer to finish my master thesis, and offered to keep me company with some strawberrys and ice cream. Is she interested?

[Kayla45]

That’s a sweet gesture! It could be a sign of interest. She’s offering to spend time with you in a friendly, casual setting, which suggests she feels comfortable enough around you to initiate something social.

She might simply want to strengthen your bond as study partners and friends. Offering to bring strawberries and ice cream is a kind and thoughtful way to break the ice and spend time together.

Alternatively, the offer has a personal, cozy touch that might be her way of testing the waters for something more than just friendship.

Of course, it’s also possible she just wants to cheer you up while you’re working alone, without any deeper meaning attached.

How can you tell? Notice how she acts when you’re together. Does she smile a lot, make eye contact, or ask personal questions? Does she seem interested in your life outside of studies? Does she find reasons to spend time with you again?

If you’re curious about her intentions, you could try to reciprocate by inviting her to join you for a casual activity, like a coffee or lunch break, and see how she responds.