Would you girls really be friends with a guy who you thought was ugly?

[Anonymous]

I knew this ugly guy who was quite stylish and tall let’s call him Eric, so basically I’ve known eric since primary school and we went same high school and college ever since we was 11-12 girls have always avoided him or talked to him rudeley and called him ugly all the time even the female teachers hated him and Eric got detentions for stupid reasons and in college he started to dress nice and he had an account with 20k followers and a lot of girls was commenting on his posts complementing his style but girls never gave him the same energy in real life even tho he dressed even nicer in real life and they’d still avoid him and laugh at him when he’s not there I personally would of rated his looks a 2-3/10

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5 mo

He didn’t start fights he just said things back

[SueShe]

Of course I would provided that this friendship remains solely platonic and that no emotions or feelings may develop from his side.

I don't date or fornicate and I have no issues being friends with anyone I find interesting on an intellectual basis or with a good character and personality.

Looks, height above ground or 6 packs do not interest me the least. I am not into that and therefore, if I can hold a great conversation with that person, then I would absolutely be on a platonic friendship with him.

Unfortunately, I have made the experience that more often than not, men are not satisfied with remaining on a platonic friendship with girls.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It wasn’t that Eric was ugly on the outside, they did that because he was ugly on the inside, and rarely does someone get punished for “stupid reasons” so there’s a lot you’re not telling us

[Asker]

Nah he actually was nice but he just got ignored

[Asker]

The teachers didn’t like the look of him

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s just not true. Every teacher that ever punished him did so because of his appearance? That means every punishment was related to dress code, or you’re talking about a statistical anomaly that needs to be studied.

[Asker]

Like people used to bully Eric because he was ugly and he would retaliate and then only he would get into trouble and not them

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So he wasn’t punished for how he looked, he was punished for starting fights

[Nikki1989]

Looks have nothing to do with friendship.

[Asker]

Maybe just for u

[Nikki1989]

I have friends of all shapes, sizes, and appearances.