How to respond?

[Anonymous]

I'm speaking to a girl and I'm like really bad at thinking of things to say or ways to respond. She sent me a mirror pic and I'm over here like do I compliment her or will she take it the wrong way? Please help.

[Twodogs0525]

Hell yeah, compliment her! If you like her eyes, say "I love your eyes." If you like her style of dress, say "wow, I like how you dress, very nice!" Do you like her hair? Her smile? What ever draws your attention, tell her. Would a compliment offend you?

[Asker]

Hell yeah brother. I ended up complimenting her and I don't even know why I was overthinking it. It feels so dumb now, but it was worth it.

[Twodogs0525]

I remember the very first date I was on in middle school! We went inline skating at a rink. The first thing I noticed was her earrings, they were little stars that hung like an inch below her earlobes but they looked so cool with her long blonde hair. I complimented her about them and she absolutely LOVED it lol she mentioned how she didn't want to be flashy, because she only wears studs in school but wanted to look a little dressy for me, since it was a "date". She really appreciated that I noticed.

[Asker]

I guess it really is the little things sometimes.

[Nikki1989]

She won't take a compliment the wrong way unless it’s overly sexual or “creepy.” The best way to respond is to be sincere, observant, and brief.

[Anonymous]

She most likely sent you a pic of her to compliment her cause she's probably attracted to you

[Abbycado]

Absolutely compliment her if it’s genuine.