Advics on Work happy hour?

[Curiouscat2009]

Hey,

I need some advice on this.

I (male 34) was sitting next to a coworker (female 36) I work on the same team with at a work happy hour. I turned my body full sideways on my stool so i could talk to her. She was facing me, her legs in the same direction. She was talking to me and another coworker who was standing near us. I'm very quiet, so I didn't say much. At one point, she rested her foot on the bar on the side of the barstool I was sitting on. I felt it move a little. It was there for a little bit. Then i felt her foot touching my knee. She had her boot so that it was on the side/touching the back of my right knee. She adjusted it slightly as it touched me. She left it there for a little bit while we were talking. I didn't address it or move away. Then after a little while she adjusted her leg and brought it away from me. She didn't talk about the whole thing or mention it. I didn't really act because I wasn't sure if it was a mistake or not. Was this a conscious flirting effort, or some sort of way to check how comfortable I was with her touching me?

[Nikki1989]

Good God! You are 34!

Nothing happened.

[Curiouscat2009]

Just because I'm 34 doesn't mean I can't be confused.

[Iron_Man]

Ask her out the next time you get to work, that’s your advice for the night

[slatyb]

I expect it was conscious. Invite her to lunch or coffee or whatever.

[Anonymous]

She was probably flirting with you

[In_Trance]

Get back to work

[Curiouscat2009]

Hey, it's just a question. I'd think twice before touching a woman I work with like that at a work function to be honest, were the roles reversed.