Girls, Is it true that you care about a man's attractiveness especially if it is a one nigh stand?

[foxsquirrell]

Yes it is true

No it is more about his heart and how gentle he is with me

[SueShe]

For me, it is absolutely not true and that for 2 very distinctive reasons.

1. I don't fornicate, never have and don't plan to do it in the next 20+ years.

2. I am not attracted to the looks, height, 6 pack or whatever external attributes a person has. The only thing that attracts me in a person (both genders) are the personality, character and intellect.

If any of those 3 assets displease me, then you can rest assured that I will not interact on a more personal way with that person.

Looks are ephemeral while a great character or personality usually stays a lifelong.

[foxsquirrell]

Looks are ephemeral? Its not like they fade after 2 days normally. And no matter how awesome a character one might have it is not going to make up for being unattractive. I dont think your argument makes sens. I mean you might be a very peculiar person, but still I dont believe you. I mean you can always find a guy who is physically attractive and who does not put you off that much for a one night stand. If you dont fornicate you are simply throwing your opportunity away.

[SueShe]

You mean to say that I throw opportunities away to infect myself with STD/STI. You are absolutely right about that. I am not willing to take that risk just for a few pathetic spasms and muscular contractions.

[foxsquirrell]

Omg the way you talk is like a software or a robot! Vert odd indeed. He can use a condom by the way, it certainly avoids the major ones as far as I know if you are concerned about STD's which I can understand.