Girls , do you care whether your guy is considered attractive by other girls or not?

[Anonymous]

This happens often... there's a girl who's kinda into me... and then she sees other girls flirting with me and giving me attention , she suddenly becomes all over me ! Even making the first move and stuff... this is just hard to understand as a guy.. because if I see other guys flirting and hitting on the girl I like , it wouldn't make me like her even more... in fact , it can be the opposite lol... why is it different with girls?

Hard to explain , but I do care...

Um... I don't !

[Lauliss]

If the man I like was being considered attractive to other women, I would leave. I would assume the man has a lot of options and wouldn't choose me (not that it matters). So not all girls act like that, I would hate if the man I love was being cornered by other women.

[alice55]

I don't like it when girls find the guys I like attractive cause I'm rather possessive.

[Asker]

Healthy amount of that is great !

[Billlewis]

I think it's sexy as hell when you enjoy the fact that your girlfriends are jealous of you for having such a hot boyfriend.

[Unit1]

Isn't that how the top 20% of men bag most girls?

[Asker]

I don't think I'm " top 20% " lol...

[Unit1]

Then top 30% perhaps. Or you have a blessing, that attracts the opposite sex. I am cursed.

[Asker]

Nah man.. I don't have any money lol... but I'm fairly handsome and " mysterious "... chicks really dig that they're the ones who approach / initiate... You're cursed? xD... Unless you're ugly there's no problem... Just be natural and don't try to impress...

[Unit1]

Good stuff. Girls however never approach me. I ain't ugly. I was told i am beautiful by the opposite sex. Still i am single.

[Unit1]

I'm broke too. Damn!

[Asker]

You're probably lacking confidence... and trust me , girls can smell that from miles away lol... I'm socially awkward and very introverted.. lone wolf type of guy... but maybe that appears as confident to other people because it seems like I'm having a blast on my own... and I think girls like it because for them I'm that handsome dude who don't check other girls or try to get their validation and also seem mysterious but not intimidating... so , they feel really comfortable around me and have no problem making the first move... I hope that helped lol... and like I said... confidence ( any form of it lol ) is quite essential...

[Unit1]

Dude, are you my blessed brother? I'm a reserved lone wolf too. Just not really introverted.
I hear that a lot about confidence. However no one really says what it means. I don't think that's the case with me.

[Asker]

Yeah people overestimate confidence a lot when talking about attraction... like I said confidence can be translated to a lot of things... if you ask me... Regarding girls and stuff... I gave you my experience... they like it when a guy isn't seeking female attention all the time... I think one girl explained it well here on G@g... she said there's two types of guys... one who's intimidated by an attractive girl and one who's calm and not fazed by it... and she said women can tell which one are you right away lol 💀... like I told you before... Just be natural and don't try to impress or pretend something you're not...

[Unit1]

I'm doing that already and still nothing

[Asker]

Then not enough rizz bro xD

[Anonymous]

Actually the opposite. If other women find him ugly I like him more. I remember in school when I found out my crush was the same crush as the other women in class my feelings stopped in a sec

And no it doesn't mean I like fat short men

[Asker]

" If other women find him ugly I like him more " ... that's... odd !

[Opinion Owner]

Yup🤣😭

[rachel776]

[Anemone978]

If I see lots of girls all over them it actually makes me less attracted to a guy. For me I don't care if other girls think my man is ugly as long as I think he is hot.

[Pinay_ako]

He’s mine! Why do I have to gaf about what other girls have to say?

[Nikki1989]

The opinions of others mean nothing to me when it comes to this.

[May1787]

I want him to be the most attractive to ME. I don’t care what other people think.

[Chthou95]

They say they don't. But men with women do attract other women. Female nature is fascinating sometimes

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope.

[gothbxtch]

not at all