If a girl who rejected you in the past and used you as just a shoulder to cry on comes back as a single mom, should you give her a chance?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

A chance at what? You're just her security blanket, man. Sounds like she needs an actual friend.

[ohsheeT]

No. . Because it won't last because you're still making it all about you

[Zbrody1997]

Hell no, F*ck no, do not ever let a woman play you like that.

[Asker]

You think people deserve a second chance?

[Zbrody1997]

Case specific, however not with love. If she didn’t see your value the first time she’s not gonna see it while she has a kid, women use men to take care of their kids, most women will leave your ass as soon as that kid is gone.

[Asker]

Ah I see. So she is only coming back because she has ulterior motives? She got played by the guy she actually wanted and now wants to use the "sucker" which is me in this case to clean up his mess?

[Zbrody1997]

Exactly, women in her situation will use many forms of emotional manipulation

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense because when I dealt with her in the past she manipulated me and played victim when Infact she was the one playing games.

[John_Cobretti]

Just push her off your shoulder and walk away

[Pohjolan]

Nope. She already rejected you once so she isn't really that into you.

[Asker]

Why is she coming back?

[Pohjolan]

Branching. Basically she sees him as a temporary plan-B before finding a new mate.

[Billlewis]

Of course. Why wouldn't I?