Would you feel bad if a woman who rejected you and played games with you is now a single mother?

[Anonymous]

[ManInChains]

Wouldn’t feel bad at all she did that to herself 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

That is true but wouldn't you feel bad especially if she is a good person?

[ManInChains]

No. In my experience there are no good women

[Asker]

I think you have been scarred by women. There are definitely some good women out here but a lot of bad ones. Too bad when you see a lot of situations like this where women rejected guys who may have been good for them in the past but they end up as single mothers

[ManInChains]

Saying I’ve been scarred by women is an understatement

[Asker]

It's okay. Don't let that deter you from finding someone.

[ManInChains]

I don’t want to find someone. Why is it that everyone assumes everyone wants to find someone? This pisses me off to no end. Why does everyone want me to be miserable? Why does everyone want me to find another cheater or another false accuser?

[ManInChains]

Or another bitch who will use me for my money. The last time that happened I lost over $1,000

[Fireguy17]

nope, not at all.
What happened after she rejected me is out of my control.
That could have been me having to make those child support payments.

[itsannalee]

Why would you feel bad.
That’s her choice, every choice has its consequences.

[Asker]

I always feel bad when people I used to know end up in bad situations. she's not a bad person at all but I kinda knew she would end up in this situation

[itsannalee]

Not everything you know is your concern. Not everyone likes or feelings good when people feel sorry about what they went through.

[AviatorTom]

I'd feel bad for her child... that's all.

[LiamJHayden]

I cold appraoch. If she rejects me, I wish her well and move on. It is highly unlikely I would even find out she became a single mom.

[Asker]

What if it was a girl from the past you used to talk to?

[slatyb]

Why would I care? If she "played games" it's my fault for participating.

[Anonymous]

Haha no I’d thank my lucky stars it ain’t me paying child support.

[Asker]

You would feel that you dodged a bullet? You wouldn't feel bad if she was a bad person?

[Opinion Owner]

Heck yeah a bullet dodged.

Cos paying child support for 18-21 years is a sure way to be broke and in poverty these days.

[Anonymous]

Why would I feel bad? Odds are she chose that. If it doesn't bother her why would it bother me?

[Asker]

True that but you wouldn't feel bad that she is in a bad situation?

[Opinion Owner]

I feel bad for the child. The child doesn't deserve that.
You can't live somebody's life for them. If someone makes bad choices time and again (and a lot of single moms do, hence why they're single moms).
I don't feel bad for men who choose gold diggers either.

Sorry man, I'd like to feel bad. But single moms are not very nice people. I can't afford to feel bad for her. You got to keep your guard. She may play helpless but I promise you she's not.

[Asker]

I feel bad from a distance but I don't lose sleep over it. I actually would date her if she gives me a chance but she doesn't want me. she's above dating someone like me

[Opinion Owner]

That's where we differ. I would wish her well. Because I don't not wish ill of anyone whether they date me or not. But she kind of proved her lack of good decision making when you told me she's a single mom. She either does not choose men or she drives them away.
Just remember man your value is NOT determined by a woman. I caution you against taking her back

[Slim57]

Nope, I would laugh my ass off. Actually it's happened with me plenty of times already. Peak comedy.

[Asker]

Why would you laugh?

[Slim57]

Because they deserve it

[exitseven]

No, why should I be.

[Asker]

Maybe you still want a chance with her