Is the girl always calling first a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

I’m always calling him first and he always answers quick and we end up talking for hours and he usually does most of the talking. Is that a bad thing he doesn’t call first?

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6 mo

Also I brought it up jokingly that he doesn’t know how to start a phone call and he just said he’s too busy

[Anonymous]

No. I almost never call first. But I do not do it because I figure THEY know when they have time to talk better than I do. So they can call me. I'm never that busy.

I think he's probably full of it with that comment. Nobody is that busy.😆

[Asker]

Yeah 100% full of it bc he did call me first the few days. I think he has the same reasoning bc I didn’t always answer him right away

[DryGermanGuy]

"I think it's terrible! Girls chasing boys. When I was your age I never chased a boy or called a boy or sat in a parked car with a boy!"

- Lorraine Baines McFly, Back to the Future

[beenherebefore]

I think you need to give him some space to initiate too.

[20yearsolder]

Does it bother you? If not, then don't worry about it.

[dudeinohio]

Not a bad thing