Is it normal to be affected by a girl using me to make my friend jealous, even though I'm not interested in her?

[badg96]

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4 mo

Yesterday I was at the club with my friend and this girl I'd only been with twice before, and I'm not interested in her. She's slept with my friend a few times. She held my hand several times at the club and even put my hand against her stomach.

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4 mo

Then, at the club, she kissed another guy in front of my friend, and he got upset, dumped her, and left. Later, she cried on my shoulder, saying she really likes him and that he probably doesn't want anything to do with her anymore. And when we said good

[MandalaMama]

I'd say it's normal. If this is something you've identified you're bound to be affected by it in one way or another.


The fact you've asked about it gives me the impression that you're bothered by it. How do you know she's into your friend and not you?

[badg96]

Because she tell she like him a lot to me crying. If she is into me i think she not do this

[Rangers]

She sounds super toxic, if you don't want to start emulating her behavior, stop hanging out with her

[badg96]

I only go out with her because when my friend talk to her. I only be with her try times. She is very toxic make jealous with a guy friend

[slatyb]

Why are you allowing this? Don't get into someone else's mess.

[badg96]

I trying not getting that close to her but She do this

[DishLady]

Sounds like part of you IS interested in her….

[badg96]

Im not but i think i not like being used

[spartan55]

What do you mean 'affected'?

[badg96]

I think about this sometimes