My boyfriend (34) is taking pictures of random woman in public/on the bus ect and saving them to his phone, should I leave him?

[Butterflybabe6]

[Purpleronnie]

Well , that may be somewhat odd-behavior


So clearly you have spoke of this? , what did he put up as a defense for his actions?


Generally it’s not illegal when in public places however I would questions his ethics and motive (s)


I’ve had at least one person randomly take my picture when I was walking down the street but I just pulled a funny face , walked on and ignored it , but not everyone will or should react like that.


And I hate to say it , there is massive gender bias here and guys taking pictures like that would likely be regarded very differently than women.


It could be sketchy behavior but without knowing his motives I’m not going to pass judgement.

[MisterPandemonium]

Unless your boyfriend has a legitimate reason to be doing that, you should probably leave him, or encourage him to get therapy.

Does your boyfriend have an interest in fashion? Is he maybe taking the pictures because of what the women are wearing? Is he an artist, or a journalist, or anything like that? Maybe he's trying to document something about the lives of everyday women? I'm reaching here, but maybe your boyfriend's hobby isn't as depraved as you think.

[FreyaRed]

I guess when he is alone he plays with his PP while watching phone photo archive

[Nikki1989]

Report him. What he is doing is illegal.

And yes, dump his creepy ass.

[Friendlybro79]

Is it illegal to take pictures of people in public? Creepy but not illegal. I'm pretty sure but if I'm wrong let me know.

[Fireguy17]

hat seems odd, what does he do with them?
If it really bothers you, which I think it does, talk to him about it and how it makes you feel.
If he stops great, if not I think you have your answer then.

[purplepoppy]

Try that shit here and he'll have a long walk home.

[Iron_Man]

Hi, I hope your friend is OK. random girl. I know she lived near the storm the winter storm, but I haven’t heard from her yet. she hasn’t been online.

[blackeagle007]

It’s weird yea. But if he’s taking pictures public, it’s not illegal. Still saving them in his phone? Say to him “wtf”

[Butterflybabe6]

Yes he took a picture of some chick on the bus and saved it.

[Brady]

Tell him 2 stop n delete the photos if u don't like it or you'll leave him. Tell him girls don't like strangers 2 take photos of them.

[genericname85]

I wouldn't stay with such a person. That's weird as fuck.

[genericname85]

I mean I assume you live in the USA. Where I live, that's actually a crime.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him. Ask him. I would probably leave him. That is creepy.

[AngryCarl2]

First ask him what's his major malfunction? Then leave him.

[LiamS95]

You should certainly confront him and leave the decision to leave him until after that.

[Staximus]

The guy is a fucking weirdo creep stalker, you need to learn how to pick better guys

[Anonymous]

I don't think taking pictures of women without permission is appropriate.

[DishLady]

Probably... unless he's a photographer...

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. That’s creepy.

[Cute_User513]

I agree. It’s super creepy

[4ngelic]

duh, why is this even a question

[mistixs]

Yes he has no respect for boundaries

[queenofcardio]

So creepy. Yes leave

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's some pretty creepy shit wtf 😂

[Anonymous]

Who is random woman and what is a bus etc?

[Butterflybabe6]

Just some chick I don’t know and he doesn’t know her either

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that's beyond creepy

[Anonymous]

How can you still be attracted to him?

[Sam1133]

For his big cock

[Fruitpunch1789]

@Sam1133 LOL

[Mike_Hum]

How is this even a question?

[ItsAshh2009]

That seems very weird

[888theGreat]

up their skirts , butts, breasts? Not good

[CuriousMufuxka]

He's still taking the bus? Holy shit.

[onecuriousguy2454]

I think he is weird

[chase_strickland800]

Leave him best option he’s a perv

[MasterKS]

You start to take pictures of guys and ask him.

[Anonymous]

That’s creepy af