Where do single men meet good women?

[Anonymous]

I think when it comes to meeting good women, the internet is pretty much dead now. I think that the meetup groups website is crappy because you got to pay for it monthly.

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5 mo

Since I don't have anyone in life that I can talk about my problems with. I wrote chatgpt, a full description of my problems. It told me that due to the fact that I have been rejected by people since the age of six. People can sense that and I make them feel uncomfortable. With my low average IQ, and low processing, and working memory, I need a therapist. It also told me that my first goal should not be to make friends. It also told me that people don't use the internet anymore to make friends.

[Summeroflove]

Internet is a bad place to meet people not saying there isn’t genuine people there. But they tend to be ran off…. Many people online are either desperate people who can’t easily find anyone in real life. ORRRRR…. Are there to fluff their own egos. Nothing serious will come from that 9.99/10.

[Joshydavid25]

Usually, at the places you would find regular people... Work, stores, maybe Church, bookstores, Volunteer centers, Shift stores, etc..

[Joshydavid25]

Thrift stores***.. Thanks for MHO!..

[Miristheiss]

Church. Maybe a few.

The west doesn't really produce many any more.

Just Godless, feminist, entitled, think they are perfect as is, promiscuous, abortion is their God.

[Asker]

@miristheiss Probably something that a lot of people don't know about me is, I was raised in Church. I went to Church as a baby until 2020. The Churches where I live, are not friendly unless they are a cult. So I felt like Church failed me. When I was in school, the girls were not nice people, they were stuck up. So I felt that school failed me. Then I got to work for a school, where I was around a lot of women. Some were single, but they were not friendly either. So my job failed me too. Which is why I spent so much time online trying to meet people that way, because life has failed me.

[Miristheiss]

"Failed" you?
Were you owed something?
You needed a dad that taught you life isn't fair and no one is going to feel sorry for you.
Get in the word and seek God, find a scripturally obedient church, get in shape, get a marketable skill, helpnothers and keep working and striving.
You sure as hell aren't going to find a kind, humble, virtuous woman in a club or a dating app or Instagram.
That is the bottom of the barrel.

[Asker]

@miristheiss I am in the word on a daily basis. I go walking on a daily basis. And proved yourself to be a jerk. So what I am going to do for your advice is put you on block, for being inconsiderate.

[Persephone02]

I think honestly the best thing to do is try to meet women at social events, church, bookstore, or even a lounge with karaoke. There are good women out there but they are not many you will find on the internet and that goes for men as well for women. It's better to meet people in real life.

[Asker]

The problem is I don't have any social events in my life.

[Persephone02]

Download meetup-social events and groups

[Asker]

I have been to that website and they make you pay to sign up for it.

[Persephone02]

All the more reason not to even indulge in a website like that

[Sunrising]

I'm sure single men meet good women in heaven.

[Asker]

The Bible tells me that there is no gender in heaven.

[Sunrising]

But doesn't the Bible tell us heaven can be on Earth?
My second answer is, I am also a single guy, and I seem to meet lots of lovely single females on the Internet, so there must also be plenty of lovely single females just waiting to meet us everywhere we go, shopping, hobbies, keep fit, holidays etc.
We just need to ask the right females.

[Asker]

@sunrising That has not been my experience on the internet. I started out on dating sites, hung out on social networking sites, been in chatrooms, went back to dating sites, so I tried them multiple times, etc. I have been everyone online but the places that force me to pay with a credit card, and I have not met very many good women. :( Part of the problem is where I live. You won't find very many women online in the state of Indiana. And if you do, they usually live too far away for me to get out and date anyways.

Now for the Bible:

This is the verse that makes me think that there might not be gender in heaven:
Galatians 3:28 28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

I admit that it is a confusing topic as this article on got questions demonstrates from a Christian perspective.

https://www.gotquestions.org/gender-Heaven.html

[Sunrising]

All I'm saying is if there is nice females in one area, there most be nice females where we live.
Perhaps the Bible is just saying everyone is treated equally in heaven.
Mathew 6:10 in the Lords Prayer the phrase "on earth as it is in heaven" indicates it's up to us to make earth into heaven.

[Asker]

@sunrising That is the New Apostolic Reformation Interpretation of Mathew 6:10, but that is not what it means when you put it in context.

In New Apostolic Reformation (NAR) and related Kingdom-focused theology, Matthew 6:10—"Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven"—is interpreted as now, rather than merely waiting for a future heaven. It is viewed as a commission to bring heavenly order, justice, and dominion into earthly spheres, effectively "colonizing" the earth with heaven's culture.
Key Aspects of the NAR/Kingdom Interpretation:
• Kingdom Now Theology: Rather than a passive, future-only expectation, "Your Kingdom Come" is a mandate to actively bring God's governing authority into every aspect of life—government, business, and society.
• Earth as it is in Heaven: This is interpreted as a call to make the earth reflect the realities of heaven, meaning removing the influence of darkness, sin, and demonic powers from earthly systems.
• The Church as Agent of Dominion: Believers are seen as "merry warriors" or ambassadors tasked with implementing God's will and transforming the world.
• Active Prayer for Transformation: The prayer is interpreted as a strategic tool to bring about spiritual and physical change in the world, shifting the focus from personal needs to the advancement of God's dominion.
This interpretation contrasts with solely future-oriented eschatology by emphasizing that the church has a direct, present responsibility to manifest the kingdom on earth before Jesus's return.

[kmg9150]

I dont think your problem is where to meet women, I believe its whats your are and aren't doing to meet women. Because any where you are able to talk to a women, is a good place to meet a woman. DM me if this resonates.

[Hagar88]

In church. Trust me you want to avoid, bars, clubs, college campuses, dating apps etc.

[Flower7]

At work. Or doing the hobbies that you like.

[Sevenpointfive]

there is no such thing. humanity is lost. what is the point anymore?

[Titanic1912]

You can meet good women at libraries, church, certain get togethers. You’ll meet some fine women there. Good good clean girls.

[DryGermanGuy]

https://youtu.be/A8HX7EZmiAk?si=_r8alRDonEpWAM0z

[LiamJHayden]

Museums. Classical concerts. The grocery store. Anywhere

[Bloodparadise]

Travel abroad 😅 Switzerland for blondes, or maybe you're into gypsies 🤣

[CuriousMufuxka]

Out in public. Same as before the internet blew up. Apply thyself.

[Anonymous]

They don't, that's the plan to depopulate the planet

[Cheerfull009]

If both are pious , then in Heaven otherwise in Hell

[Shiprex]

In the sphere of public spaces.

[Imjustagirl1520]

You’re 45 just give it up already

[Asker]

You are so kind. Maybe when you get older people will dump you for your attitude!

[qwerty2469]

East Europe, South Asia, Church. That's it.

[MikeMcMansion]

In your dreams. Seek God

[Mike_Hum]

do you have a job?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Anywhere.