What emotion do you hide behind logic so no one notices it still hurts?

[Anonymous]

[Hardon-Collider]

What? I do the opposite. Use logic to awaken emotions.

In fact, if you ask about keeping secrets and not flaunting around? You make a secret pleasure more immortal by making it more significant, and you make it less significant by making it more widely acknowledged. You just reminded me of some old quote that i used to vaguely feel something from, but now understand how it affects the afterlife. Something like "the more photos of yourself exist the less alive you are". ... I just googled it. It must have been Alan Watts who said something most similar to that.

And shit, i just looked at your username. Aren't you that chatgpt copy paste opinion spammer? I guess at least someone else will enjoy reading this opinion then.

When you have your fun, instead of bragging and posting on social media, try to keep this fun to yourself and whoever you experienced it with. There comes up a new experience. A feeling of impermanence. And it ferments in your soul to produce a stronger appreciation for what cannot be mummified. By that i mean, actually nothing real can be mummified. What a great descriptor, because mummies are dead. Just like your social media posts.

Whatever was on my mind when i typed this.. i think you should hide a lot of good emotions because when they ferment inside they can produce something more concentrated. By spreading your experience you are trading intensity for quantity. And in the afterlife, in spirit realms, where anything is accessible, quantity does not matter. intensity does. ㅤ

[Asker]

I get you, some experiences gain life when kept quietly, fermenting in the soul until they reach full depth.

Sharing can echo briefly, but true intensity lives within, and some pleasures are more immortal when held close.

Your words reminded me that what cannot be “mummified” is often the most potent.

[OneViewpoint]

Welcome to a man's world Dorothy. Most men hide most of their emotions all the time for their entire lifetime. We don't hide some single emotion. We hide all of them. because that's what society and specifically women want from men. Women want support from men, they do not wnat to support men.

• If a man shows too much interest he's friend zoned.
• If a man shows too much affection, he's clingy.
• If a man cries he's weak.
• if a man shows fear, he's weak.,
• If a man struggles with a decision, he's indecisive.
• If a man is depressed, women run away.
• If a man is horny, he's annoying.
• If a man is angry, he's dangerous.

So men celebrate their wins alone. Men deal with their problems alone. Men don't even talk about that stuff with other men. Women certainly don't want to hear any of it. They want all the benefits and none of the bad stuff.

Meanwhile men go off to war and kill or see their friends killed. They go to sea as fishermen. They clean sewer systems. They work in factories and oil fields. They drive long haul trucking routes. They build bridges and skyscrapers and electric grids. And they do it in silence. But most of us are OK with it. We are trained from birth to live that way. It's just the way it is. Like I said, welcome to a man's world Dorothy.

[OneViewpoint]

Oh, and as a result women call men "emotionally unavailable". It's a hilarious lack of self awareness.

[Simslover92]

Detachment. I've become numb to almost everything. So I detach. I used to be so passionate about life but now I'm a shell of myself because I've been hurt so many times and this last time really did me in.

Like tonight all I wanted to do was say I love you but I couldn't do it because I don't have the energy to do it anymore so I just detach and that's the emotion I hide behind logic so no one notices it still hurts.

[ChillDude4L]

I get your feeling; I am always numb about things in life,
I have zero motivation in finding a partner, I have a job that is alright (due to parents nagging and not giving up on me), But when the job gets uninteresting J think of little things like Coffee, Movies, Food, Video Games, Shopping.

Or sleep early, next day is always less shittier than today

[DishLady]

In person, any negative feelings will be pushed to the Phantom Zone till the offender has left my sight.

On projects, daily/weekly interactions will be conducted as needed for the successful completion of the task... to save face despite the hurt feelings. But then there won't be any interaction beyond the project.

[Nikki1989]

This meme sums me up perfectly. ^

[bobalife]

I can easily suppressed my emotions that can make me hard to read when I’m hurt, sad, or going through a lot. I guess in other words… known as being shut down emotionally yet keeping a smile and normal.

[RandomGirl42]

I usually hide all my insecurities underneath a bottle of booze! 😊

[queenofcardio]

Sarcasm. Sometimes I'll laugh if I don't want anyone to truly know how I feel.

Although, I'm terrible at hiding my emotions. Someone that knows me can tell when I'm masking.

[Agape93]

Nothing really. There's not much there to even hide

[snermcger]

My tears knowing that the Dallas Cowboys will probably not win the Super Bowl again till after I am long dead.

F you Jerry Jones!!!

[Pohjolan]

That question doesn't make any sense.

The logic is either correct or not regardless of feelings.

[NathanDavis]

I don't hide emotions anymore...

[AngryCarl3]

Fear of abandonment.

[Anonymous]

Lovesick

[msc545]

Sadness.