Boy's do you feel uncomfortable with your girl friend cleavage in public and girl's do you stop if your boy friend strictly ask for stop this?

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Paige90 · Accepted Answer

Why would I stop. They look good and I take it as a compliment when anyone looks at them.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

I do not really have this issue. XD

DishLady · Answer

Here's my personal breakdown, which is based on common sense:

PERSONAL DIGNITY & SELF RESPECT: If you're showing the puppies off a little be tasteful. Guys aren't going to be serious about a woman who struts around like a fluffy tramp.
RELATIONSHIP PERKS: You made your guy look. Congratulations. Now do him the honor of not making all your friends look. Be "The Waldorf" (selective audience) not "the 24-hour Burger King" (open all day doing it their way).
TROPHY CHICKS: Some guys DON'T mind that you're "the 24-hour Burger King". They proudly drag you around to all their friends and parties and stuff thinking "I've got the hot girl"... but fair warning that "hot girl" status (1) is not carte blanche for you to do or say whatever you want, (2) is not carte blanche for him or his buddies to do or say whatever THEY want, and (3) not likely to be an aspect of a lasting, loving relationship.
FINAL HINT... GUYS WILL LOOK ANYWAY: Most guys will glance and fantasize about 80% of the girls they see anyway. It's how they're structured, whether you're completely topless or wearing a snug turtleneck. Their "primal lizard brain" registers "curvy fertile looking thing within sight" and they just glance, breathe and let their minds wander even if it's just for a split second. It doesn't "mean anything" but sometimes you'll catch each other's eyes and get a funny flustered look from them... and you know they were thinking something naughty.

If that doesn't make sense think of it this way... What tempted Adam into giving up paradise was most likely NOT the fucking apple. We're dealing with The Sons of Adam here... be nice, they're only human.

madhatters4 · Answer

i don't personally mind as long as it feels like it's not inappropriate for whatever situation we are in but generally speaking i don't really comment on the way my partners dress (in fact i don't think i've ever spoken a critical word in regards to my partner's choice of clothing)

the one thing i do tell my partners, because it has happened where they are really bearing their cleavage and complained that people were staring, you have to expect that men will glance if not outright stare at cleavage.

Lliam · Answer

It would be weird if her normal style was to go everywhere like that. It would seem like she was seeking attention and wanted everyone's eyes on her boobs.
Although I wouldn't really mind if she wore V necks regularly that showed a bit of cleavage if she did it to be comfortable and not to get attention.
And I'm totally okay with her going braless.

If we are going someplace nice and she dresses up in a more revealing outfit, it makes me proud to be with her.

So it just depends on the circumstances and her motives.

Voldorac · Answer

It's a form of disrespect. Why do you need to show your most prized parts to other men out there and be objectified when you have a man that those belong to? You might say that you're not doing it for others, but if you're being objectified as a result from your own perspective, even if he told you not to, because he is a man and knows what other men look at and will do, then you are disrespecting your man.

Imagine if he were to flirt with another woman in front of you. That is the same thing.
You're inviting other men to think of you in less appreciative ways, yet you want your man to be the protector in the relationship, then let him.

If you dress more respectfully in public, then people will treat you accordingly. But if you wear a cleavage, then people will treat you like an item and not as an individual.

Twodogs0525 · Answer

I don't even notice, I'm not really a "boob" guy. I remember the first official date my wife and I went on, she later told me she wore a low cut dress, kind of to show off the "goods" to me, but I never even noticed. I was too busy looking at her legs and butt. And face! lol

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope, I'm not insecure about it and nope, I don't need to dictate how she dresses. If I'm with her I assume I like her taste in fashion for herself. Other guys can look all they want. Eat your heart out boys.

Tarifa · Answer

I don't mind, as long as it's not in an inappropriate setting, like the office or at a funeral, like someone else pointed out.

Besides, she will wear what she wants, not what I want. She can go braless under her t-shirts, wear a dress with cleavage or go topless at the beach. If I were to ask her, she might not. If I were to object, she might do it anyway. Her body, her decision.

Natasha1995 · Answer

My husband is not that insecure that he would have problems with this. If he asked me to change, I'd expect him to at least give me a valid argument. Not that much to show anyway.

RavVid · Answer

It is unacceptable if my girlfriend embarrasses me. Like a lot of cleavage at a funeral.

I'd also expect self-mate guarding if she purports to be in a relationship with me, as I will do. Advertising is unacceptable.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never had an insecure man try to control how I dress. If he did, he wouldn't have been my man for any longer.

ohsheeT · Answer

I would ask why do wear things to bring attention to yourself. I wouldn't tell her she can't wear what she wants to wear. Because I would press and respect her, but I would just be curious. Why she would want other guys to look at her that way

Anonymous · Answer

Some feel uncomfortable due to unwanted attention from others or personal modesty preferences. Others feel proud or indifferent, viewing it as their partner's right to dress how she feels confident. I prefer modesty.

Anonymous · Answer

Unless it was something completely inappropriate for the setting, I wouldn't really care. Its fine for going on date, but I wouldn't want her dressing the same at my niece's birthday party.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

My wife is a skinny Asian. There is no cleavage.

slatyb · Answer

Not at all. I want to be with the woman everyone else wants.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm single so I don't have to worry about that.

soe11 · Answer

I absolutely don't mind my girlfriend show off in public. I am fully comfortable with her outfit. She go out many occasions in public with particular style.  I'm glad she does wearing publicly.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No. Doesn't bother me! She can walk around topless, for all I care! They're just tits!! EVERYBODY KNOWS she's got `em and EVERYBODY KNOWS what tits look like!!

Massageman · Answer

Nice picture. None of them ever looked THAT good.

dudeinohio · Answer

It doesn't really bother me. Lots of women do this.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I love it when I see other guys drooling over her perfectly shaped, full, perky breasts. They're so damn pretty even women take notice. It's great!

Friendlybro79 · Answer

wear what you want. It's not up to another adult to tell another adult how to dress... Unless you're literally going to a place with a dress code and you're just trying to be helpful lol

Staximus · Answer

It's fine, as long a she's not dressed like her body is for sale

Anonymous · Answer

I honestly think if you’re very bothered about this as a guy it just proves you’re very insecure

CountryWanderer · Answer

I loved it when my girlfriend showed cleavage, and the same for now that she's my wife. She could show more and I'd love it

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I wouldn't mind my babe showing SOME, though not A GREAT DEAL of cleavage.

bowenw · Answer

It would not bother me. It's her body and her choice what he wears.

Anonymous · Answer

MY girlfriend has tiny boobs so there's nothing for me to get paranoid about. lol

leva532 · Answer

Nope, Why would I stop as it's my body. But they loves to see it😂

Loki97 · Answer

If she is showing cleavage she's not my woman, she's for the streets,

Spiritofn · Answer

Tiddys are cool. If I could feel them I'd run away though that's a nice rack.

jahaims · Answer

My wife isn't an attention whore so I dont have to worry

Siajanua2027 · Answer

As long as she doesn't show much ass, i am okay.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I live at the beach. I barely notice.

Pyrofox · Answer

To me it just feels cheap.

Jeff51 · Answer

My wife doesn't show

ponderingpaul · Answer

No more than my obvious penis bulge does her

nik_the_cur · Answer

I'm perfectly fine with it

Shortkay45685 · Answer

Nope I wear what I want

DirtyOldMan777 · Answer

my girls don't show in public

CubaPirate · Answer

Nope Im not that insecure

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