Why do some girls’ want sex with a guy that puts her in her place?

[Finchie40]

There were times I got into arguments with a girl and it was back and fourth name calling pretty much , until i finally had enough of her shit and landed a final attack and then walked away. moments later she wants to fuck , why does that turn her on? Does she look at me like a bad boy? Why does that turn girls’ on?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Wouldn't be me. If it was me in that situation I would be imagining myself slapping the back of your head. I hate name calling.

But I will say. I like a good leader. I look up to them. My boyfriend rarely gets angry but when he does, he doesn't yell, no name calling, no threats, no breaking things, ... It's controlled anger where he looks for a solution for the both of us. Putting me in my place means that I was wrong, and that he wants us both to move forward, the best for both of us. That's a good leader. It's reassuring.

[Finchie40]

Yea I don’t like fighting and arguing , but been in relationships with girls’ that do , that have a hard time controlling themselves , so my only defense was to put her in her place and walk away , and eventually she would come crawling back to me. But they are all my exes now , so I am looking for a girl that is calm and can control herself that doesn’t like conflict and drama , but unfortunately items been hard to find lol

[Agape93]

It's a show of dominance. Years ago we had a girl on here I would Dom pretty much daily. She liked being told what to do, but loved being "forced" to obey. She got off on being made submissive. Same kinda deal, it's a kink

[Jennz6]

@Agape93
I’m like that with guys

[capriVib]

Willpower acts as an aphrodisiac for women. Proving your point without folding, and even being a bit narcissistic, creates attraction. If you'd just surrendered and said "you're right" you wouldn't have gotten any.

[Finchie40]

Yea I agree, this works for me when it comes to girls’ so that’s why I do it. I just make it clear to her that there are plenty of other fish in the sea , so I am perfectly fine if you walk away from me because I will just catch another. I never let a girl walk over me whatsoever , if she is rude and disrespectful to me , I give it right back to her , I don’t care how hot she is , I put her in her place and it gets her wet

[capriVib]

Lmao, no need to act like an alpha 24/7. You gotta be a "beta good boy" every now and then. I think society actually loves the nice guy.

[Finchie40]

No I am more of a nice guy , I just don’t tolerate a girl that tries to walk over me that is disrespectful and rude to me , my ex suffers with mental illness and depression , and she would switch on me like Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde to the point I didn’t know who I was coming home to , she would be sweet and caring and loving most times but then she would turn into a demon other times , it was one of the hardest relationships I experienced, to the point my only defense was to not let her demon side get the better of me. So she is primarily the reason I have walls up protecting myself when she started attacking me verbally by insulting me , criticizing me and belittling me , I put her in her place and would walk away from her , eventually she would come crawling back to me , this went on for quite sometime to the point I couldn’t take it anymore and threw in the towel on her crazy ass. I blame myself for thinking I could handle her illness but I was just fooling myself. Cuz it wasn’t a healthy relationship whatsoever.

[ManOnFire]

Women like when men stand their ground, it shows he is dominant. For American women though they just like being treated like shit anyway, beyond a man simply being firm.

[Tomislav7]

Jesus lol. Girls particularly the hot ones get pampered and its not exciting. A dominant good looking guy is able to humble her and correct her and she submits to his will because she respects and admires the man. These women dont let any dick in hand dork have sex with them.

[AngryCarl3]

Women have evolved to select a mate who is a strong protector. You proved your strength to her by not putting up with her nonsense.

[LazerBean]

Sounds like Daddy issues.

[Sal_Monella]

Women are attracted to command presence. That's why Donald Trump and got all the babes

[robocop666]

submissive people like losing.