Why is it some guys will use a girl in any way possible?

[Anonymous]

I have a “friend” and he’s currently not with his ex girlfriend but is talking to her. I have no romantic feelings for this dude but I wouldn’t mind him nailing me. He invited me over with the lure of him banging me saying he needed his balls emptied. Over I went. Instead of that, I get to hear about his ex girlfriend and I’m over there giving him advice and such because like I said, I don’t care for him romantically and I know that whatever reason she left him for he deserved it because he’s emotionally immature. I’m fine with being the shoulder to cry on, but the least I could have been was the metaphorical dick to ride on too. Why do some guys just live to let females down?

[Oliverlogan263]

Your friend sounds like a major tool. Using you just to vent about his ex while dangling the carrot of hooking up - that's super wack. Dude needs to get his shit together.

I think some guys do this because they're insecure and immature. Easier to play games than deal with their feelings. Or they just don't respect women and see them as objects instead of people. Either way it's fucked up.

You deserve way better than being his emotional trash can while he leads you on. Next time he tries to booty call just to bitch, I'd say peace out. Don't waste your time on dudes who don't follow through or value you as more than a placeholder until his ex takes him back.

You seem chill and you got needs too, ya know? Go find a guy who'll actually fuck you right without all the bullshit mind games. Leave this clown in the dust where he belongs. Respect yourself - that'll show him way more than hanging around being his doormat ever could.

[ChicoFromThe305]

What can I say some guys don't like desperateness 😂

[Asker]

Yeah. Totally desperate when he’s the one who messaged me and offered to screw.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe you turned him off lol