Why are some girls insecure?😐?

[Anonymous]

I dont understand some or many girls have insecurities but are the most loved on the planet🤔🤔 , at least u will still be loved even if u weird, not good looking (i dont like to use the word ugly when talking about a person) , quiet person , maybe u have low selfesteem, maybe u lack confidence because of childhood or any reason.. guys will still accept you for who you are just by being yourself... maybe u are very emotional? u will still be loved

Us guys dont have that privilege , guys dont get loved for being themselves we have to become someone. u think any girl will accept a guy like that which i described above? Not a chance guys gets judged if they are that way if they are insecure, no girl would ever possibly will love them , they are unnattractive to all girls, some men even reach 50 and above never had a special someone in his life before (it happens). Some even die never experiencing a woman's love

So why are some girls still insecure when guys have it the hardest when it comes to love? maybe u dont know your more privileged yet? or why?

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[babywerewoof]

Im insecure sometimes but not always.
Sometimes im insecure if i dont know the answer to a question, or if im sweaty i worry about showing stains on my clothes, or if im feeling hyper and trying not to act like im 5 years old, it happens.

Other times i feel confident like when discussing something i know a lot about, when im with my friends, when other people do stupid stuff. If you ever feel insecure just watch cringe videos.

I think you feel like girls have nothing to be insecure about because you put us on a pedastal we dont deserve. We're just people lukeeveryone else. We say words backwards, we make dumb decisions, we walk outthe door with zits we forget to pop.

So relax

[Anonymous]

I became insecure because of people give me dirty look, jealousy, hating on me, backstabbing me, I don't know what to do now. I feel hopeless and more insecure. and I don't look ugly, I'm fit, but guys love taking advantage on me by saying they love me. I feel hurt so bad when they leave. I don't have anyone. my confidence crush even more. I'm tired of my life.

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

There are plenty of girls out there who don't get any male attention and probably never will. The idea that girls are more privileged in that respect is pure bullshit. Yes, girls can get laid easier but only because guys are more willing to fuck anything with a pulse. That's hardly a great prize for the girl and it doesn't mean that she wants any of the guys who are trying to bang her. Just as you don't want just any girl, you want a girl that you are attracted to.

Don't start falling into the trap of self pity and start making excuses about how life is harder for guys. That won't get you anywhere and it's just a load of crap.

[Powderpuff97]

I never get male attention and never have. But it’s okay I started focusing more on me and my studies. I rather be independent since there’s a possibility that I may never get married or have a family but I’m okay with it. It was already a struggle for me to find a prom date. lol my teacher asked a room full of guys if they wanted to take me to prom and they all ignored her and basically acted like “ew no” lol 😂

[TonyBologna25]

Women are societally privileged in certain ways over men. Women are judged more on looks rather than status and income. Looks are sort of given, and status/income are acquired through a lot of hard work, pain, and tribulation. It’s been like this for a very long time. Men don’t care about a woman’s income for the most part. Men biologically and societally have an innate need to take the lead. A man who’s insecure is not fulfilling his biological roll. The more you deviate away from your biological gender roll, the more unattractive you become. A girl who’s insecure isn’t judged in nearly the same way. A low income man can’t support. A low income woman can make a nice stay at home mom.

I’m not bitter or one to self pity. I’m in a healthy relationship, and doing just fine before you accuse me otherwise. My girlfriend agrees with all my views. I don’t think what you’re describing is just a load of crap. I think it’s skewed and presented in a self pitying way, but not dismiss everything he’s saying it to dismiss evolutionary, societal, and biological logic.

[TonyBologna25]

But men also have their advantages in society as well. They’re just different than a woman’s

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

Lol, I know you bruh. I know that you're far from incapable in any way and I appreciate your views.

[TonyBologna25]

Ahaha cheers

[Hermits-Shell]

I was bullied every since I was 8 to 15 about my height and weight. Nobody got physical but they played mind tricks with me. There would be people that would come up to me and call me baby as joke. People would be interested in me or would tell me other people were interested in me so i could take the bate and be like “really?” So they can say they were joking and that im to ugly for people to like me. So now if someone asked me out Or called me pretty I can't tell if there joking unless there old or one of my moms friends. So yeah, not everyone who is female is loved. You shouldn’t assume peoples experiences.

[Anonymous]

I’m a girl and I don’t get it either. I’m personally insecure (to the point of deciding to remain single and a virgin the rest of my life), but for good reason. My body is horrendous and guys can easily do better, but I’m not getting into details about it.

If a woman is proportionate, is skinny/healthy weight/curvy, she is considered beautiful to the majority of society and most flaws they express are completely unnoticeable. I’ve heard crazy insecurities that don’t match to what they’re saying. Their perception isn’t reality, especially if they are in relationships or receive male attention.

[Powderpuff97]

I can relate to your first paragraph a lot

[AudreyB88]

((Personally, I'm insecure because I spent most of my childhood being bullied because of my physical appearance.))

Some women feel like they're being constantly judged based on their physical appearances (They always have to be 'perfect'.)

[Tideo568]

Women are insecure because MOST need a man to lead them. When there is no guy in your life ( no leading guy) , women feel like they have been abandoned in the woods alone. Evolutionary we can't survive on our own, so thats why we are insecure.

[babywerewoof]

Evolutionarily, no one can survive on their own. Without a tribe you got eaten by sabercats or direwolves, or went insane and died from the elements. Anyone can be insecure, its not a vagina related condition😒 stop pretending to be a girl.

[FictionalCharacter]

First off, mirrors don’t lie and guys sugar coat their lie when rejecting a ugly girl such as moi.

The facts of life.

[normalice]

The things they are told they are good for are not the things they want to be good for.

[Dav1ss]

Why are some guys insecure?

[justcurious2019]

the same reasons girls are insecure

[Dav1ss]

@justcurious2019 it was rhetorical

[justcurious2019]

@Dav1ss my bad i didn't get that

[Powderpuff97]

It’s equally a struggle for both

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why some guys/men are insecure