Context:
I was in a group assignment, we didn't meet right away.
When we did, it was before Easter break, I texted and told my progress in the group chat many times.
I submitted the report etc.
But when I met her again I just said hi and she was so threatened that she stuck to the wall.
It made me feel like a criminal đ đ„Č.
And by the way I got blocked without even knowing.
I never understood this interaction.
I know my place as a side character but not a villain.
She is from Korea and I am from India.
I was in a group assignment, we didn't meet right away.
When we did, it was before Easter break, I texted and told my progress in the group chat many times.
I submitted the report etc.
But when I met her again I just said hi and she was so threatened that she stuck to the wall.
It made me feel like a criminal đ đ„Č.
And by the way I got blocked without even knowing.
I never understood this interaction.
I know my place as a side character but not a villain.
She is from Korea and I am from India.
Updates
2 mo
I met her in exam, this was a different interaction. She is just scared of Indias (maybe had a bad experience with other Indian guy)
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What Girls Said
You never asked her if it was okay to text her, did you?
Actually it was her idea to create a group
Yeah, a GROUP CHAT for a SCHOOL PROJECT is not the same as texting her one-on-one.
I didn't try to do one to one
You did, how else would you have found out you were blocked?
I am just overthinking this instance.
But it has happened to me before. But in those instances it was a completely different context. I was trying to help someone to get better at cooking and it made her feel that I am just showing off.
So I stopped.
It's just that I am bad at being able to show good intent.
Or I am genuinely just bad.
Profile picture goes out right?
That extreme of a reaction doesnât come from nowhere. Either you did something or something happened in her past to make her afraid and not want to interact with you.
That's the thing I don't know.
If I did something I would like to know so that I can fix it. Or just not take this much over thinking
The âfixâ is that she blocked you and made it clear she doesnât want to speak to you. The problem has already been solved. Your lack of awareness of what the problem was no longer matters because itâs now fixed.
Hmm true.
I need to get my ego in control.
I still felt "why me?" And
"What did I do?"
While your hurt feelings are valid, this is a matter of a lack of awareness on your part.
Hmm
I know
We arenât mid readers. Only she knows.
True.
I am just overthinking this instance.
I don't know why I do this.
I thought it was about my ego.
It still might be but it's actually confidence, it makes me feel that I don't even deserve to be a friend
Who knows lol lots reasons ig