Girls, Are you an assertive person?

[TurkishGuyy]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Not generally. Im more of a go with the flow personality. I don't really like to argue with people offline. It makes me uncomfortable.

Online I will stick up for myself more but still prefer peaceful interactions. Generally I surround myself with people who like making decisions, but will take my input so that it's an equal process.

[Nikki1989]

I can be in some situations. I know what I want and how to get it, and I very rarely stray from that.

[TurkishGuyy]

I love a woman who knows exactly what she wants. Confidence is incredibly attractive. Does it take a strong guy to keep up with that kind of energy?

[queenofcardio]

Overall no but I can be in situations where it's necessary

[TurkishGuyy]

That's a perfect balance. A woman who knows when to take charge is actually really attractive. So, what kind of situations make you step up and take the lead?

[queenofcardio]

Whenever someone is making me feel unsafe of uncomfortable. In any situation where I need to stand up for someone

[TurkishGuyy]

I respect that a lot. Having strong boundaries and protecting people is a huge green flag. Speaking of traits, what are the most important qualities you look for in a guy?

[Abbycado]

I can be, yes.

[TurkishGuyy]

That's really awesome. Are you like this with guys too? Do guys tend to let you take the lead when they're around you?

[Abbycado]

It is really situational and sometimes even mood dependent.

[TurkishGuyy]

I respect that a lot. Having strong boundaries and protecting people is a huge green flag. Speaking of traits, what are the most important qualities you look for in a guy?

[TurkishGuyy]

Fair enough! I'm curious though, what kind of mood brings out that assertive side of you?

[Abbycado]

Not really sure. Usually, if I’m really excited for something he planned special, I might be a little more assertive just because I’m worked up and excited. That’s an example.

[TurkishGuyy]

I love that. It shows you really match a guy's energy when he puts thought into something.

[Agape93]

Uh yeah

[TurkishGuyy]

Hahaha I love the 'boss' energy. Should I be a little intimidated right now?

[Agape93]

I don't care if you are or not

[TurkishGuyy]

Brutal. I respect it

[karlaatsd]

Sometimes yes and then no sometimes

[Ellieeexo]

what way?