Girls, do looks matter more than behavior, personality, and character now?

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4ngelic · Accepted Answer

they don't matter more, it's more like you can't have without the other in a way. pretty sure this goes for everyone. you got to find them at very least somewhat kinda cute & you got to like their personality, no one cares about an unattractive person with a good personality for dating and no one wants to truly date (as in actually date, not just use for sex. this is a male thing though) a cute person who sucks inside or is boring.

Taurus_Woman · Accepted Answer

Nothing is more important than behavior. Appearance is important too, but if there is a choice between behavior and looks, behavior matters more.
Appearance may attract attention, but behavior determines how a person is remembered. In the end, good behavior creates lasting admiration, while looks alone are temporary.

CarolineWhizz · Answer

I think we have to admit that looks initially play a big part in attraction. Who are you going to go for, the specky nerdy guy or the hunky good looking one? Be honest, it's the hunky good looking one! The same applies with guys. Who is he first attracted to, the goofy plain girl or the one than looks like a supermodel? However, personality and behaviour soon play a part. Guys soon get tired of shallow supermodel types with nothing between their ears, and girls lose interest in attention seeking muscle guys. Getting to know people makes a big difference.

temu_shrek · Answer

Nah, when I met my husband he was the ugliest man I ever met. He made me laugh, and then we got married. It’s strange to me but after being with him so long I now find him super attractive. Perhaps it’s psychological. But now I have a funny AND attractive man. Yay 💅

lolitsme1123 · Answer

It’s not that behavior and personality matter less than looks. The thing is most people are hesitant to even give the personality time to shine if the initial attraction isn’t there.

queenofcardio · Answer

Looks definitely don’t matter more than behavior and personality. I still need to feel at least somewhat attracted to him. Whether I continue the conversation depends on his behavior and personality.

Clyde_123 · Answer

Let's be honest. Looks do matter you won't be attracted to someone first without being attracted to their looks and their personality will be second you are going to judge or decide if you still want them if they showed their personality.

Thesecretlollipop · Answer

No. No matter how good someone looks (which is subjective anyway), a bad personality will be an absolute dealbreaker. No matter what other good wualities someone has, i will never excuse cheating and disrespect

uncarved · Answer

Character and personality are everything, I don't really judge by physical appearance hardly at all. I am rarity. I am polyamorous and have met my soulmate, along with another extremely compatible match. I find matches with people based on who they are, not what they look like or how they can provide.

I'd say I am extremely lucky, or actually know how to date right lol

Darcey · Answer

Yes looks matter. Just like how you rate women on their looks before personality

Zionne · Answer

it doesn't really matter, but proper hygiene with good personality really attracts

objective_calendar · Answer

Not more than, but I guess it's more sought out now than before.

bobafiend27 · Answer

For me personality is the most important but I have to be at least a little physically attracted to a guy to want to date him

WellBye · Answer

Brain matters more than all of them.

Ameilia_M · Answer

For hookups - yes. Otherwise not.

Marissa4 · Answer

Looks character.

karlaatsd · Answer

Sometimes yea

Girls, do looks matter more than behavior, personality, and character now?

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