Is real love possible if you feel unattractive and always rejected?

[Anonymous]

I can see people around me are in a relationship with someone, and when I ask someone out after being their friends or just knowing them, got me rejected so many times that now it's a pre -determined outcome.
Meeting new people now is becoming harder than ever too.

[DishLady]

If YOU feel "less than" then there is no way to love another person bc you don't love yourself.

[Asker]

I do love myself. But I also keep my bad stuff out in front so that they don't have to find it when they have to find it out.
Cause I don't want to be hidden or show something I am not.
I am confident enough to say out loud.

[DishLady]

Being negative about yourself isn't a positive thing. You can cloak it as being a realist, but harping on it constantly shows a lack of self-love.

[Nikki1989]

You will always struggle with that attitude.

[jahaims]

No, a healthy relationship doesn't work if one or both people aren't confident.

[exitseven]

yes, I am living proof.