Does anyone feel like love is unattainable?

[Jordan00]

Sometimes during my daily routine, whether it be commuting, or at work, I feel a sort of disconnect from the rest of society. there's the pretty girls, the couples, and then there's me - the loner. It always feels like everyone else has it worked out, or can work it out.

I however, feel like the exception in this case. Despite going to college, being social, and even having female friends, I have this gut feeling be alone forever. It sucks :- (

Perhaps shouldn't complain - but feel like I'm missing out on the human experience. I'm afraid it'l be this way forever. It sounds stupid, but it's anxiety inducing. FOMO in other words. Dating apps are a disaster, as now I'm begining to question my appearance. I really want to avoid the incel minset, but can feel myself sinking into the pit.

[paledreams]

Enjoy the disconnect man - at least people never bother you imagine those rich celebrities and rich executives out there, or rich politicians, they're all got their faces out there in the world media and world memory banks, and the irony is the likes of yourself and me as ordinary working folks - we can all just enjoy our seemingly invisible existence, no paparazzi at all :) it's bliss if you adopt the positives as opposed to negatives :)

[paledreams]

The pro's. The pro's 😆😋😅

[paledreams]

The other male answer makes a valid point that I already knew at 30 lol about :) some women would just take nice men for a ride and treat him badly lol so I'm glad I don't waste even a dollar on a woman, I keep to myself and single bliss, friends, family, hobbies, work work work I love work 🥳🎉😈 because work is more money lol

[Billlewis]

It's not love that's so out of reach for most men, but sex, that we have little chance of getting, and even the love is virtually guaranteed to be of the one sided variety.

[Anonymous]

Kind of. I think most guys have 2 choices. 1. Remain single forever. Or 2. Be in a relationship but with a woman who neither loves or respects him and one where he'll always be an option for her.

[SolitarySolace]

For me, yes. But that’s ok. I’m not seeking something that doesn’t exist 🤷🏻‍♂️

[LiamJHayden]

Ask some girls out.