Are there some loves that are just unattainable?

[MLGbreezy]

So there’s this girl I’ve made a few posts about her. She absolute beautiful I follow her on IG have been for some time. A year or two ago she started an OF page and but she also makes content on Ig dance videos since she’s started she’s been growing at an exponential rate in less than a year she made it to 1m followers on IG that’s more then some smaller name celebrities and even big influencers that I’ve seen and she’s growing faster still she just reached 1.6 mil the other day and I only checked a few days prior when she was at a million. She even has people like snoop dog following her, not to mention her of where she ha 45k people subbed.

All this to say i know she has guys with way more money that probably wanna be with her or who have reached out. She is still single and has been for a while out not to mention she is without a doubt making more than I’ll probably ever see money wise. From her OF to the multiple instagram pages she runs.

How could I ever hope to stand a chance I don’t wanna give up but looking at it now it seems hopeless especially with her rapid growth it’s pretty astonishing. All this at the age of 18 at that. I don't know what to do I’ve never felt this strongly about anyone before I’ve tried to ignore the feeling or try dating other girls but it’s not helping.

[Sheriblossom]

I don't know the specifics of your situation or what this girl is like in person. However, it takes a certain type of person to do Only Fans; someone who wants male attention and gets validation from doing this (beyond just the money). If you want a serious relationship with this person, it would be important to consider if this is something they are even ready for or interested in. If I was a girl with money, and endless male attention, I would not see the need to settle down right away. And if I did, that guy would have to be providing something for me, or be very high value. This is where you need to be honest with yourself and ask what you can provide that someone else could not. I think it makes it extremely hard especially when she's financially independent. Relationships are sweet, but there are many harsh truths that come with it as well. Because if you are not at the top of your game, she may not respect you. And if you get into a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you, it will just hurt in the long run.

The other thing to consider is how comfortable you would be with her doing Only Fans. Some people are okay with it, but some people go into a relationship thinking they can change their partner, and that almost never works. If you really like her, go for it, but be realistic with your expectations. Keep leveling up, becoming better, and you will naturally have more options to pick from.

[MLGbreezy]

I don’t care about the onlyfans thing I’m not the type of person to judge over something like that at least she’s not they type to fuck anything that moves like some onlyfans models she’s been in one relationship from what I see.

As for the other stuff that is kinda why I asked the question in the first place is it even worth trying. This girl is at the point where she could probably slide into some celebrities dms and actually get with them if she wanted to. Why would she get with some random dude that with like 400 followers and who is not making much money.

It’s so frustrating

[Sheriblossom]

Yes, it is frustrating. However, I think that this is a common feeling that many guys experience. Maybe not with the same type of girl. But naturally, I think that guys want to be providers. Rather than investing time into asking why things are the way they are, it's better to just focus on improving yourself and making money. Channel your emotions into something that makes you better.