I've learned the harsh reality of it all, love, soulmates, romance, etc. it's all but delusions. It's all but lies and emptiness. Just like how that "There is no spoon" scene in The Matrix. They don't exactly exist the way it had been falsely represented or misrepresented, or mislead to believe that they do in various media, etc. Instead nobody else can ever be you or know you other than yourself. All it matters is that you take care of yourself, and if and that's a big fucking "if", if you find somebody or "if" they find you, great. But here's the other cold harsh truth, what guarantee is there that relationship, love, or whatever you want to call it, is going to last, if at all? People change their minds all the time, or have some sort of their own agenda, you might not get along with them forever, you might end up fighting a lot together eventually, cheating CAN happen!
And then you might even wonder one day, would it had been much better if you had remained single and not even bother taking your chances with relationships or "love" as it could all could fuck you up even worse than when you were still single?
There is nothing really like TRUE love. And if it does exist its not as rosy and fairytale as you think. True love is years of effort on making things work supporting each others being there for good and bad days. And their will be BAD days a lot. But I am not talking here about abusive relationships no. I am talking about dealing with life challenges
Hmm I don't really care or need a relationship exactly, it can wait. I'm still young anyway.. not that it stops my classmates. Lol don't worry about it that much you'll get there. ^^ I personally think that you don't always have to be in a relationship to be happy.
many people don't. many people settle. or think they found the right thing but have it end anyway. so, you should expect that things will be somewhat unsatisfactory.
Yeah but I'm sure that everyone feels that way at some point or another
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I used to think that "come next year I'm gonna find someone" but as of late I've pretty much resigned myself to a solitary life so I can understand where @Unit1 is coming from. Tho who knows, the girl that lives on the other side of the continent also wants to meet and get together at some point so who knows how things will turn out.
Sure! There's me, @JudgmentDay @decentguy and probably @ThisDudeHere , who are probably never going to find love. Ain't life a lonely journey :/
And yes, at this point it starts to hurt but as I like to say life is random.
I cope with it by watching lots of porn and hugging pillows at night.
Yup, I feel like that all the time. I think everyone has that longing to be close to someone. It kinda scares me sometimes that I may never find someone but I've accepted the fact that I may never find someone mainly cuz I don't want to dwell on what might be. I just try to live my life like I normally would and if someone happens to find their way into my life, then it was meant to be.
Soulmates aren't real, you have to go out, meet a lot of people and know exactly what you want. Don't limit men by superficial shit if possible, just focus primarily on their personality.
When you mix great sex with an intelligent, creative, fascinating person you're in for a great time at the very least.
Yes I have and by being myself I found my other half, never give up, always smile always stay positive and I promise, love will find you, pray about it, stay safe do what makes you happy it's all rewarded in the end.
I gave up a long time ago. I dont even try to FIND it anyway.
I'm 30 and have never had a boyfriend, so yeah, I feel that way a lot.
Yep, im at a prety low level of loneliness right now and i dont think its going to improve any time soon
Yes, after 2 ex girlfriends i often wonder if i will ever find true love again for now I've given up.
I do , I feel like I have solo much love to give but no one to give it to. I wish I met my soulmate so that we can do some totally awesome stuff. This makes me feel pretty lonely.
Yeah, after 2 ex boyfriends i'm not sure if i'll ever find someone
Yes I want that closeness feel the desire but I dont hate or blame anyone or anything and i wouldn't want to get into something toxic or sacrifice a career or business for it.
i also feel like that, and i totally agree with @Unit1
yup, most definitely not gonna find love, but who know, maybe someday :D
I'm not sure I will find anyone who will be with me
I find it and it goes away and rinse repeat but I have hope this time
I feel like you because i'm socially inept and shy :(
I'm lonely and starting to feel doubtful about finding a soulmate.
Yes this will happen if you are not good looking or shy to share felling someone
Me although I have a boyfriend
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