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Okay so i was texting this girl all week. She was consistently texted me back. We matched on facebook dating and texted. Was suppose to take her to the movies and dinner yesterday but never heard from her. She flew back from a bachelorette party yesterday morning and said she needed to take a nap first when she got home. She texted me yesterday morning but haven’t heard from her since… i was the last one to send a message to her. Last night, she liked my tiktok picture of me and viewed my snap story. What should i do? Should i give her space and let her reach out or?
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Not only would I give her space, I’d question pursuing her altogether. Don’t get me wrong, I completely understand being jet lagged, or if maybe she intended to go out with you but ultimately was too tired — this is all understandable. But communication is key, and it only would’ve taken a brief moment to tell you there’s been a change of plans. That way you can do something else with your time rather than being on standby, unsure of whether you are hanging out or not. For her to have been leisurely scrolling through her social media tells me that she was up and awake, so why not text you back? Hell, even liking your content without having reached back out to you is pretty rude. Sure we could assume that maybe she felt bad and wasn’t sure how to cancel, or hell, maybe she’s talking to someone else from the Facebook dating and that’s got her attention more. In any case, she could’ve and should’ve said something. Not doing so could be an indication of what you will have to deal with going forward, and being disappointed and/or blown off is a huge thumbs down for me.
I agree! Should i remove her as a friend on facebook and snapchat and just delete her number?
That part is really up to you, but I personally would. Since in that situation I’m not looking for a new friend, there’s just no need to keep her
Giving women space and "acting like a mature bigger man" is actually how women manipulate men into becoming submissive. He should assert his dominance over her using his passion.
I know a lot of people kinda pretty much say goodbye to her, but I truly think what matters is listening to your gut. Is this type of communication okay with you? You guys did finalize date plans, right? Some people may just ease in after a trip and date has already been finalize. I think modern dating also discourage double msging, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong showing someone you’re thinking of them or double checking if the date is still on. We don’t know her and how she’s like when she’s in a post trip mode. Personally, I’ll play devil’s advocate, I’d give her the benefit of the doubt she’s probably just tired, low energy, and still showing she’s interested by liking your stuff… I think it’s just hard when suddenly communication change and our anxiety/insecurity gets to us… but I think if you guys truly had a good connection during texting and finalize that date already, I don’t think it hurts to be open and asked if the date was still gonna be on. Or even double messaging her bc you missed her. But of course if this just isn’t your style and you know you’d want more communication.. it’s also your call on what you’re okay or not okay with. Whatever decision you make is the right decision because you know what you want.
Oh wait I’m so sorry I just reread your story, I just realized she stopped replying the day of the date when it was supposed to be dinner time 😭😭😭💔 okay nvm, time to move on, you deserve better!!!
Hey everyone! I really enjoyed reading the insights here—it's so relatable! It’s interesting how silence can sometimes speak louder than words. I’d love to hear more takes on why she might still be curious about your posts despite going quiet. What do you think?
Maybe she needs space. It's strange though that she's still liking your posts without replying.
I thought so too. She liked my picture of me on instagram last night without hearing from her
Should i message her again and what should i say?
Yup. Just be honest and say you're confused about why she isn't replying to you
I just blocked her. Don’t have time for games. We talked for a week. We was suppose to hangout and she never texted back. She views my snapchat stories so i blocked her on there to
Good on you!
but wouldn’t you agree that “babygirl” is not quite appropriate for someone you’ve messaged for a week. there’s a such thing as overeager and too much too soon
just a thought. neither here nor there. i don’t think she should be agreeing to a date on the day she arrives back from a trip. there are so many better days to plan things. so altogether whatever.. but I’m just wondering if you might want to put more intention in your dating style so that you might attract what you exude
Give her space, she might not be that interested in you. You'll look desperate if you don't.
Text means nothing. Go on your date. Then decide.
Srs. This is a woman you have never met, who knows nothing about you, for which there is a 1% chance you'll have a relationship and you already think you are entitled to a blow by blow text commentary on her every waking moment. Be a freakin man.
Give her time to come around and take things from there and see what happens.
DUMP DAT DOLL !!!
Just move on. She isn't worth your time.
Move on she not interested.