Why do some women act rude toward shy or nervous men?

[Anonymous]

This has been my observation from my school if there is a nervous guy or a nervous man.
Women tend to be obnoxiously rude to them.
Sometimes destroying their self image.
True Men don't do that.
Women you know that right he is making or trying to make you comfortable but In the process he doesn't want to get too close where you feel threatened.
Example group or class photo,
A random dance call , you know right if you don't want to then you can be polite and declined.
Most of the time a polite decline is enough to make a guy understand.
A guy has been trained to listen to 'no'.
You don't have to be rude, and make a scene or set an example.
If he is forcing or saying come on even if he is nervous about it he is giving it all to.
But at that moment no and sitting down is much better.

[Anonymous]

She's a C U Next Tuesday. I mean some women will give you some lame reasoning that coming to her all nervous isn't flattering, it's actually insulting. Like you know you're not good enough for her, and she by your actions knows you're not good enough for her. So why put the onus on her to have to let you down easily. This kind of shows you how narcissistic she is. But this is actually a good thing man. I know, it doesn't feel that way at the time. But getting treated like this by these heartless b****es will actualy toughen you. It'll will numb you. And years. down the road when eventually you're with a woman you'll remember all of this when a woman cries about some nonsense. It'll roll off your back like nothing. Now you're a terminator. You can date women and not feel pain, pity or remorse. And like the terminator you absolutely do not stop until you get laid. F*** her and her nonsense.👍 you can take rejection. Because it's only about getting your 🍆 wet and then moving on to the next one. You'll get there. Be patient.

[jahaims]

They don't know how to interact with guys who they aren't sexually interested in

[Asker]

Kinda make sense

[FreyaRed]

Pecking order.
Watch a group of chicken a while and you will notice that too. For external observer their ranking games make no sense, since there is enough food and all of them are sleeping at the same high in chicken house.

[Kvass]

Confidence earns respect. Acting like a shy kid in basic social situations usually doesn’t.

[Factual_person]

So what? Are you saying it's fine to bully them?

[Asker]

I guess so she must be one of them

[Kvass]

@Factual_person Learn to read. I’m explaining why it happens, not saying it’s okay.

[Nikki1989]

And how many women are you basing this delusional nonsense on?

[Anonymous]

You know these things because you date men? Or you’re going to tell women that you know better than them how men react when rejected by women?

[Asker]

No it's that it's just something I see most of the time.
And it's in friendship, not in a relationship.
In a relationship the stakes are higher and different, and also you know the person you are with so you aren't going to make silly mistakes, especially if you are nervous in front of your partner I don't think that relationship is going to be a long one.

[Factual_person]

Tbh usually I have seen men be more rude to them than women.

I don't think this is particularly a gender thing but more of a bully thing regardless of gender

[Asker]

Really?
I don't know about it

[Factual_person]

You are in High school?

[Asker]

Nope in office

[Anonymous]

You’re not wrong but I haven’t noticed that that much

[Anonymous]

I've never noticed that.