Why do some women enjoy humiliating men in relationships?

[gasman70]

[SueShe]

Because they have learned from men. Men have taught them so well that they finally found the courage to do it themselves.

Men have used and abused women since the dawn of time. They have prevented (and still do) to allow them to get education, they have segregated them, they treat them like objects that they discard after use.

Now, some women are retaliating and men realize that it can hurt and they don't like it, just like you do.

Women are quick learners and that is the consequence of what they have been going through since millennia.

Welcome to payback time.

[gasman70]

you realize that this is crap right, it's just a lame excuse to do the same thing that you don't want done to you but you do to them. If you really didn't want it done you owuldn't do it at all. This is the problem with the world in general, keep the cycle going instead of breaking it. Yell and scream that you don't want it done to you, but as soon as you have the power you do the exact same thing you were screaming that you didn't want done to you to someone else. Here's the real kicker, it wouldn't be to the person that would have hurt you, it would be to some poor shlub that would have treated you well that you attack because you're petty and mean and angry about some guy who said something mean to you. I've walked through the field of mean since I can remember, meaning since I learned how to talk, and I choose not to do it to others.

[OneViewpoint]

Same reason some men enjoy making a woman's life a living hell. Immaturity. Insecurity. Low empathy. Lack of respect.

But I think the lack of respect thing is a big one for women. If a woman detects weakness in a man, if he's a doormat, a woman's reaction can be aggressive. They really don't like weak men. As if he's a direct reflection on them.

[gasman70]

Here;s the problem, the power dynamic rolls downhill not up. so you shit on someone that seems weaker than you, not more powerful, so stop it with this, the guy that comes in and treats you like crap isn't the guy that you're humiliating in a relationship. I call bullshit.

[OneViewpoint]

Wow, you really have a really simplistic view of the world and you're completely missing the entire point here. I call stupidity. And I don't have the patience this morning to explain it to you. Keep on doing what you're doing.

[gasman70]

no I don't have a simplistic view of the world, I just know the reality of the world, I'm not adding in the history of the world, I'm not talking adding in prehistoric man and calling it the world and how it is now and saying, well, women need their revenge on men now, so it's perfectly fine.

[OneViewpoint]

Dude put down the crack pipe. WTF are you talking about?

[gasman70]

so you're saying, the eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth example of revenge is the format. Because I never made fun of any woman and I get made fun of by women, so is that justice or is that some sort of twisted idea of being able to justify your bad behavior? because the guys that would treat you like shit aren't the guys that you're humiliating, I fucking gaurantee you that. what you're doing is taking advantage of the weak, so it's simply a twisted justification for you to be a shithead.

[Nikki1989]

What @SueShe said. Men have been screwing women over for centuries.

[gasman70]

this is just an excuse to be shitty to the guys that wouldn't even do anything but treat you well. The guys that would treat you like shit aren't the ones that you make fun of. so you understand that this is just crap. Someone screams about being abused and how horrible it is but the second they have power they abuse the first person they think is to weak to defend themselves. its a choice, a choice to break the cycle, the cycle of abuse. I was abused for as long as I can remember in many different ways, but I dont do it to others, not because I can't because I choose not to.

[jahaims]

Broken immature people enjoy that. It has nothing to do with gender.

[Anonymous]

Being trash is all some women know. It catches up to them at some point though. So don't let it get to you.👍

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Metoo has made it easy.
Women can be cruel top 🤷‍♂️