Why do women enjoy seeing men suffering and humiliated?

[Anonymous]

[marihero]

I don’t think most women do it.
They enjoy those who have some big mental problem, who have had experiences with men who have belittled them, who have been unreliable and have been very unfair to them.

I have had some bad experience but I don’t think all men are equal, each person has his own behavior and personal life history

[Sisters_Of_Time]

Men love to see men suffer too! After all, we're speaking about evil people!

[FilmGuy93]

Well, there are certainly a lot of women out there who love men… But to your point, there is also a disturbing number of women who despise men. The only conclusion I can reach is that the modern woman envies men; she wishes she was a man and is frustrated that she sees men being happy while she is not despite doing the same things we do. I don’t think I am speaking out of turn when I say that there are a lot of women who basically think in terms of settling the score with men

[Datboi65]

It's called "the pendulum effect". Feminism started in the first wave as a way for women to get their voices heard and their civil rights upheld, but has pushed far into what is today a group of women who have their rights in place and hate men. As with the pendulum effect, we know that things will start to go back to where they were at some point with the pushback that men are giving nowadays (redpill), into a potential extreme.

This is why it's really important for women to extend an olive branch and show that they do not in fact hate men or support policy's encourage the break up of families because if they don't, for the first time ever they will start to lose their privileges that were given to them by men (like protection and improved upward mobility) and will be completely isolated. If modern men successfully defeat the loopholes that exist in the court systems (Roe v Wade was overturned, hopefully family court is next) then they will have no intent to show any mercy on these feminists and will let them starve for themselves. With the loss of tradition, you lose chivalry.

They say chivalry is dead, and women killed it. I don't believe chivalry is dead yet, but it is certainly on life support. Chivalry will die the day EVERY man can walk past a woman being attacked and record it as a bystander rather than jump in and intervene, and there are still men out there who will put themselves on the line to protect a woman that they don't know. With feminism, we are starting to get closer to that future.

If you don't wish for such a future, be the difference maker. You have a voice to speak to other women, so do it and don't expect to be thanked for it. We take notice. There are efforts being made, but they are overshadowed by an increase in feminist activity. If you don't show good faith, men are also not going to do so as well.

[ARecruitedPerson]

Ah, this is my favorite type of question! No, women do not enjoy seeing men suffer. Relationships/the dating world draw out everyone’s biggest insecurities, and so things don’t work out sometimes and feelings are hurt. But luckily, your worth is not defined by whether you’re in a relationship or not, regardless of what society seems to say. There are men who are bitter and resentful of women, and who treat them thusly like trash. There are women out there who are bitter and resentful of men, and thus treat them like trash. It is because we are human. No one’s enjoying your suffering, most people probably don’t even know you are suffering. Just because something hurt doesn’t mean it was their intention.

[Anonymous]

This is so true. If a woman saw a homeless guy talking to himself and one of her friends started laughing at him, she would join in too. Most women will tell you they don't, but that's only because they think honestly will ruin their chances with men.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Not true i used to give a homeless guy my bus money and lunch money then walk hours everyday instead,

[FreyaRed]

There are some women who hate men and there are some men who hate women. I wouldn't generalize that. Some people have just psycho-pathological tendencies.

[chocolatesinpockets]

Yep, people are people, they're as varied as the weather, and some are nicer than others. So true, so true. Let's all be good people, please 😊

[mandyfire98]

Some do, some don't. Women are humans and some humans are bad people. Men and women both can be terrible.

[ummi59]

Women don't enjoy that unless if a woman has been cheated by a man before and you all know that some men deserves that. Some men are good liars and cheaters why wouldn't i want to see them suffer for what they did.

[TroyDT2]

Why does anyone enjoy seeing others in pain? They get off on it. Those women and men who are like that share the same middle name - Schadenfreude. They are usually either psychopathic or sociopathic, too. I have zero use for them.

[lovemisssy]

because all men always say that all men are stronger than women. It's ironic that a gender that says it's strong says it hurts. I also help out when I see a man upset. Don't generalize!

[lovemisssy]

I'm sure I'm stronger than you, brainless man. Who are you and how dare you tell me to shut up? Insecure, you don't even have a profile picture yet. haahh i'm stronger than you! men must die

[lovemisssy]

Fuck off m*n. You’re not strong. U only LOSER

[Datboi65]

Right "missy". Who built your house? Who do you call when there is a home invasion? Who moves your furniture? Who shows up to rescue you from a burning building? Who gets sent out to fight in other countries so you are safe and sound at home? Who maintains the roads so you can drive with no problems? Who drives the trucks to deliver important food products to stores so you can shop and eat? Who?

[lovemisssy]

The owner of the building I live in belongs to a woman. I know a lot of female firefighters, truck drivers, female police female soldiers! If you don't know, you are an ignorant idiot. this is not my problem

[lovemisssy]

lick my shit stupid man. women are very successful and there are successful women who do these things. keep crying

[lovemisssy]

Also, it shows that men are brainless if you want to fuck with women and humiliate women. BRUH

[lovemisssy]

I'm more successful than most guys and I don't care about losers like you.

[lovemisssy]

power is not about gender. Not every man is stronger than every woman. learn this or i will fuck your dad

[Asker]

@lovemisssy I dont think you're a bad person. I can't tell if you were talking to someone else, and the comments were deleted.

[lovemisssy]

@. Asker Yes, I am not a bad person. I just don't like people who try to vilify women. men and women are equal

[lovemisssy]

I'm never anti-men. If I was a man-hater, I wouldn't be bisexual.

[Agagagagaga]

@lovemisssy I don’t care if you’re a bad person. I only care that your grammar and punctuation leave much to be desired.

But I guess you don’t have to write a complete sentence when you can just spread your legs to get by.

[lovemisssy]

Here you are saying your own lameness. We women, it's enough to spread our legs to impress you. But if you guys catch a bird with your mouth to impress women we won't look 😏 don't be so stupid

[lovemisssy]

pray, you are writing these to me in the virtual world. If you had said this to my face in real life, I would have punched you twice and made you my slave.

[lovemisssy]

men are attacking me because they are ALL LOSER 🥺😩

[lovemisssy]

you are all slaves.

[lovemisssy]

Also, you're not complaining about us opening our legs, but now I see that you wrote as if you were complaining. decide you asshole stupid man

[lovemisssy]

Women > men

[Jesibel]

What would make you assume women enjoy that? Cuz I'm a woman I can say at least from my position that isn't something I like or enjoy or think is ok.

[nspencer]

I don’t personally as long as they don’t cross my boundaries. Even then though I don’t really want suffering for the person.

[abc3643]

My wife needs to answer this question.

So does God because I want to know WTF I did in my past life to deserve this living Hell.

[GreatVallue]

You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don't need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don't need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

[abc3643]

@GreatVallue It's not that simple. And Paul Simon would know that.

[GreatVallue]

Neither are Tears in Heaven.

[abc3643]

@GreatVallue That song pisses me off.

Hi!
I'm Eric Clapton.
I'm a negligent father who let his kid fall out of the window a few stories down to his death.
I think I will write a million-selling song about it and thus get fantastically rich!

[abc3643]

26 million sales in fact. He's probably made over $10 million from that song!
All because he's a negligent father who got his kid killed.
"Tears In Heaven" = "Money In Wallet"

[GreatVallue]

Stay miserable, because no one cares. I was just offering a suggestion.

[MCheetah]

This applies to feminists using Schadenfreude developed out of a lifetime of insecurity, failure, and feminism.

[cth2188]

I don't a lot of men have put me through enough 💯 I just refuse to deal with men nowadays and keep my boundaries up. Many men don't know how to talk or treat women..

[cth2188]

Not to say they deserve it , but some guys do. Both sides hate each other truth told ( a lot of men and women )

[PositiveFlight]

This is a sad reality. Both that so many men and women hate each other and that many women aren’t treated with the respect they deserve from a man. We honestly do need each other. One isn’t inferior or superior to the other. We are each other’s complementary opposite in everything as well as physical counterpart. It’s beautiful really. But society is so corrupt now days. Very little honor left. Those things need to be addressed and fixed. Men need to truly act like men again and women need to do the same.

[cth2188]

I haven't dated a man in 9 years because most are traditional nor seekimg marriage- I would not date a man who has no intentions of marriage and due to beliefs I don't date. Most guys don't meet what I'm seeking in a mate nowadays.

[cth2188]

Aren't marriage material nor seeking anything serious ( I have yet to find a traditional man ) dating has become oversexualized and non committed yet men ask me why am I still single. I will remain celibate and single still

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Bullshit! The men you chose to deal with does not justify the mistreatment of all men

[cth2188]

I've been single by choice 9 years and celibate 8 years... I'm iffy about dating nowadays and haven't found a man worth investing with for the long haul

[cth2188]

When it comes to marriage or anything serious its off the table.. due to beliefs my mate will have to be a certain type of man and many guys have taken that covid-19 vaccine... most guys have lied about that which make it even harder to date now I don't date at all @PainusNdeeAnus.. it not even about who I'm choosing it's what I'm not going to settle for if I were dating

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Well maybe you should quit being a lazy dater and go after what you want

You obviously want someone specific so go find him or just be alone I’m so sick of you lazy daters 🙄

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Then why are you even speaking when you’re obviously undateable dating is off the table for you

[cth2188]

I don't date at all am I obligated to date no ! The issue with some men they think women are suppose to date them and or lonely or desperate/ clearly I'm happier single then with someone. I'm not dating at all and would rather be friends with men and women then invest in relationships. I have no desire to get married because I take marriage serious. I'm content being single where I have freedom and no drama in my life.

[PositiveFlight]

I hear your story all the time. It’s like clockwork. I fully agree with you by the way. Traditional love is almost not a thing anymore. Marriage and birth rates are at an all time low. A study came out a few weeks ago stating that by 2030, over 52% of all women ages 23-44 would not have children or be married due to a major shortage of men who actually want to become husbands and fathers. Our society has become such over the last 3 years that traditional men are far and few in between. Most men don’t want to do a traditional date or court a woman. Most don’t even want a relationship and are afraid to even have feelings. They are sexually dysfunctional too. I wouldn’t even consider 95% of what they want now days to be actual sex or love making. It’s behaviors that are conditioned through viewing porn. It’s mostly perversions and paraphilia. I totally understand a woman not wanting to have to deal with any of that. It’s not fair or healthy for her. It’s disrespectful and dehumanizing. For these reasons, I call a lot of these behaviors out for what they are on this website. I agree when people say things that are correct but when I see a counterfeit behavior or idea, I expose it. People can love or hate me (I’m sure most hate me but oh well) but I don’t dance around the truth.

[cth2188]

I'm choosing to be single because I refuse to deal with this generation of people sorry not sorry!

[cth2188]

After my ex husband in 2014 I stopped dating why a shortage of quality or suitable men for marriage and dating- most men don't even want marriage exclusively of they've been married or single. Most men prefer to just be in relationships without marriage and I don't date men who has no intentions of marriage due to religious beliefs. I won't be having children anymore as medically I can't and in the days/ times were in I wouldn't want a child anyways

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Then you don’t have a Choice
Choosing to be single is I have options that I would date be with long term be happy with but I choose to be alone nobody who has that option chooses to be single

You’re literally just talking out of your bum to protect your ego

[cth2188]

My ex husband was the last man who I dated and I haven't been on a date since then.. before covid I took myself out and yes most men just want to shack up at their house or the woman's house which I don't do

[cth2188]

@PostiveFlight thank you explaining to this most men they can't grasp that. It's a sad reality and I'm happier single / content ! I'm financially and educated wise secured. I have enough dealing with my ex husband with our kids.

[cth2188]

@PositiveFlight men get real upset when women like me have standards and refuse to settle.. not to say good or decent men don't exist there are certain things I'm not going to deal with..

[cth2188]

I appericate your thoughts and opinions and wish more men understood where women like me are coming from.. women like me won't settle and it's not about money with me and a man.. I'm secured there and never asked a man for money

[PositiveFlight]

I understand where you are coming from. One day at a time. I wish for you to have the very best out of life.

[cth2188]

Thanks @PositiveFlight I get told I'm a gold digger or independent no my standards are high and I don't settle. Right now , I'm going back to school and doing well for myself financially 👍.. I want my peace of mind without the drama or toxicity in a relationship

[PainusNdeeAnus]

If you gotta say it then it’s not true

[Marklaw12]

They are cold and heartless. Of course not all want to see that but if you are not their dream guy, they will leave you do perish.

Dude, step up and don't give a fxxx.

Take care of yourself

[Jdjfjcjj]

I would need you to explain the basis for which you believe women enjoy [...] because I disagree with the premise

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I have no clue especially when they don’t even understand men.

I challenge any man here to ask any woman what does a man want from their woman say for food and sex

she will either get it wrong or doesn’t know

[captain_voidwalker]

It's because men are considered disposable in society. It's why men get drafted and women don't. Its why men do dangerous and dirty work and women don't. And it's why men go down with a sinking ship and women don't.

[whirled_up_girl]

I don't know I can't stand to see anyone suffer or be humiliated.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Never ever, I’ve done nothing, I don’t gossip or tell people

[BLP11520]

My wife has issues, gets angry when I or my sons were having fun Must be the center of attention. If conversation goes away from her she has to but in even if she is clueless about topics she makes me suffer, interrupts jokes and stories

[jshm2]

It's not in their nature. Only those broken people are into that shit.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because they like the feeling of power and gratification of crushing a man.

Even the women who don't "enjoy" crushing men, will do so at the drop of a hat.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@lovemisssy That automatic block just says enough about you. Still ironic if you wanna claim to be a strong woman when you can't even handle the truth lol

[genericname85]

they don't. I don't know where you got that idea.

[AsaKyo]

I love and nurture one who is with me, so I don't lmao..

[bamesjond0069]

They like to see men who allow themselves to get humiliated get humiliated. There's a distinction

[Anonymous]

It is only feminists, not actual women, who enjoy seeing men suffering and humiliated

[Anonymous]

they don't. Stop chasing those Instagram wannabe models.

[Anonymous]

No. Only feminists like that.

[tonamimargaux]

Whatttt that’s not entirely true

[MountAverage]

You're full of shit.

[boobliker]

I don't think they all do or want us to suffer

[LimitedBenefits101]

The feminist enjoy that.

[peedy]

Because that's what evil likes to watch

[boggboss]

Lol they dont

[melanieeeB]

We don't

[sunflower00]

They don’t

[Anonymous]

Only a sadist would enjoy that.

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t