Guess what, both genders can be toxic, and both genders hurt each other. All of you who are arguing who hurts who more, just stop it's dumb and completely unnecessary as al it's doing is adding fuel to the fire. Y'all are basically arguing on who's pile of shit smells worse, the answer is that both stink the same way.
It's a circle, some men hurt women just cause they can, the same way some women hurt men for the exact same reason. And then most of the time the people ( both men and women) who got done wrong in the past don't know how to cope with the trauma so they engage into the same toxic and destructive behavior.
As I said, it's a circle and everyone hurts everyone (both intentionally and unintentionally). No gender is perfect, everyone can be a toxic sack of shit or a clueless person that doesn't even realize that it's inflicting pain to others.20 Reply
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+1 yBecause they can.
My ex told me "I destroy men". I've been hanging out with her boyfriend from highschool lately, poor guy will probably be dead soon. I'm surprised ether of us are still alive. Nether of us have dated again after that relationship.
We were talking about both ending our lives on her birthday but decided that she would probably like that, women have giant egos these days.
She told me once she always wanted to break a man's hart and have him long for her the rest of his life.
Women like to destroy men, they have been taught men are all evil and it's ok to hurt us, even a good thing to do so.187 Reply
Asker+1 yBrutal as fuck. I think your ex is at least being honest when so many women are like this.
Asker+1 ySomeone needs to end her.
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That's horrible! She is pure evil. Dont listen to her. There are good women out there but its rare.. cause good humans overall is rare. Dont end it if anything have her killed
Asker+1 y@Spongebobssocks There are only a tiny percentage of fundamentally good women , around 3-5%. Overwhelmingly, men just want to find a single woman to build a future with, but these women have been so damaged by social media and being promiscuous, that they are incapable of staying with a basic, good man.
I would put the morals and virtue of an average man against an average woman any day.- +1 y
I understand that but even you now said good women do exist so!!!
Asker+1 y@Spongebobssocks There some good women, but they are found and wifed up quickly by good men. I do know a couple of amazing, Godly, happily married women.
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Okay but try to look for good women that are single
+1 ywdym by "so many" tho bruh not all women are the same, a "few" or "some" would've been suitable for that question.
isn't it the man's fault of choosing her over millions of other better women? most men just choose girls by their looks and if she looks hot and stuff, some might be immature and don't care about the man I don't know tbh I've actually never really seen or know if there's women who do ruin men's lives and I don't either or have any friends who would do that tbh30 Reply
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750 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Women destroy the men who they see as weak, gullible, and easy to use, aka 'simps' or 'beta males.'
But women will also let themselves be destroyed by men who they think are the definition of a real man but know they do not really care about her. Even when these guys have cheated on them, used them financially, or hurt them in any other ways, these women will still keep going back. Or literally hold on to foolish hope that the guy will change or choose her.40 Reply
+1 yLet’s be honest… the only way to stop women from taking advantage of men is to change divorce laws. The only way to stop men is women not putting out first date like some whore. Ironic how women’s fix is so much easier and in their control. Truth be told it’s their fault if they pick wrong and give it up so easy… sorry not sorry
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@NWPFPB we’re not talking about what’s right and wrong we’re talking about what happens. When you open yourself up to someone they have more ability then most to hurt you.
In regards to your second question though I have from a trustworthy source that women like men chasing them. If men weren’t interested in women then you wouldn’t have that chase. What % of men do you think would pursue women if sex wasn’t a component. No sex means no children as well so who would pursue women without a thought of sexual desire or procreation? Besides this it’s not on men to not have sex but women. You hold the lion share of the risk. You women get pregnant and risk pain and death and financial and social ruin compared to mens financial ruin… more risk means you have to be more vigilant. - +1 y
Women don't like men chasing them like a dog. It's pretty much the other way around. They love the thrill of the chase. Women (generally speaking) want what they can't have. If they feel they can have you easy, they lose interest pretty quick.
If you don't believe me, try reaching out to a women every day, and then tell me what happens. She's gonna back off, and if you push, she's gonna ghost you and disappear. Women love to feel validated. When they have to chase for your attention and validation, their attraction for you creeps up.
I didn't invent the wheel. That's just how attraction works. Masculine energy grows through challenge, feminine energy grows through praise (aka attention and validation). If you go slightly slower than she is, she will run AFTER you, not FROM you. I learnt that stuff pretty quick and it honestly changed my whole dating life.
Anonymous(25-29)+1 ySerpent is venomous it's not serpent's fault but that's how God made it. Similarly are women are made that way too. Eve destroyed Adam by first eating the forbidden fruit later feeding the same fruit to Adam. That's why god cursed Eve. But God also cursed Adam as well. Adam had to suffer as well because of Eve's fault. If you follow Christianity, then you know all women symbolises Eve and men Adam. There's only way to protect yourself from such evil ( Eve ate the fruit in the influence of evil ) avoid women as much as you. Or be prepared to be ruined!
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Stop misrepresenting the stories of God. Adam was right next to Eve when she was tricked by the snake (not an actual snake) into eating the apple (not an actual apple). Adam was told by God to inform Eve about the Tree of Life, and he chose to twist God’s words and tell Eve a different story… which is why Eve fell for the snake’s con. Eve had never heard the exact words of God because Adam didn’t do what God told him to do. Adam then ate the apple too, immediately after Eve took a bite, because he SAW it did no harm to Eve. Eve did not convince Adam to eat the apple. Adam stood right next to Eve while she was tricked and watched her eat the apple, like his Guinea pig, and only took his own bite when he assumed it was safe to do so.
If anyone cares to read the ancient Hebrew version of the story of Adam and Eve, you will that the thousands of years of misogynistic spin is not in the actual tale.
Eve was tricked and Adam was the one who disobeyed God.
This is why the punishment is that Adam will become more distant from God and live in his head, but rule over the world, while Eve will remain close to God and live in her heart and instincts, while Adam oppresses her just as he oppressed God’s word in the garden.
It’s all symbolic.
The tragedy that this tale has been spun around to blame Eve is one of the greatest and saddest pieces of irony in all of human history.
Asker+1 yAnonymous. Well said and on point!
331 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Not only that, they are happy to ruin their kid's childhood and use them as a weapon to screw over the father too. they don't care how much they hurt their own kids as long as it hurts their ex too.
Just work in elementary schools and you will see that is very common.130 Reply
+1 yThat's like asking why are manipulators being manipulators?
Because they can. That's the point of evil - to do it because you can.
Now, evil is NOT connected or unique to gender/sex. It's not just many women, there's also many men that destroy women just for fun too.
Evil is everywhere, that's why we should stop it or avoid it.100 ReplyI was badly destroyed by a guy , he dated me while preparing for a wedding. How do you think I felt when I found out? He even met my parents. But some day he told me that his parents wants him to marry that girl for some reasons and there’s nothing he can do.
After that you kinda don’t feel pity for your partner
I know it’s completely wrong, but you just don’t feel it anymore
It’s more like if I won’t destroy him he will destroy me
I found out that I have no problem to complete forget a guy even after we had an amazing time together.30 Reply2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Same reason so many men destroy women for fun. Because so many people in the world are complete pieces of shit.
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As much as I wish it wasn't the case sadly it is and I agree... just gotta find your people and forget about the rest of the shitheads!
@Agape93 you said along the same lines I was thinking... I was thinking how do I say that nicely then read yours and thought damn thats exactly it!! Your incredible just saying it as it is!
The good ones are incredibly rare these days even bad ones look good at first so trust yourself above all else and I am sorry that your experience with women has been horrible.. its not just a woman thing its a human thing.. the world is fucked to the core and you deserve better!
Dont give your dignity to any woman keep it and your better off without her! Dont let someone else define you... your valuable all on your own you dont need someone else to complete you.. you are ALREADY complete!!! I understand you want someone but the more important thing is do they add value to your life? If not your better off on your own! Follow what gives you peace!
+1 yI've only had that happen to me once, when I was in my mid-twenties and I was dating a co-worker. She made sure she made my life at work miserable after we split up, and for no good reason. She never did tell me what her issue was with me. I had to change jobs to get out of the situation. But that was good to do anyway.
10 ReplySame as why men do it I guess, they are just in training for when it's an Olympic sport.
Paris 2024 Olympics, women's and men's singles freestyle opposite gender destruction semi finals 🤣🤣30 Reply
+1 yHonestly I don't know any woman that purposly tried to destroy a man for fun.
Women can be shady just as men however its such a heartless act and I'm one who believes in karma. Those that are heartless and don't care about men will one day experience what they have dished out.10 ReplyHmmm I was going to say we don't. But reading some of the female comments I guess we do
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I love it when (and this goes for anything) people write something and then have no clue that you had such reaction to said comment.
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+1 yUncertain that "so many" is accurate. I certainly don't and don't have any female friends that do or have.
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u +1 y@PrettyPriya. Same here.
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+1 yEvil same as the men that do it to women what you have to do is figure out why you picked her and change that about you so you don’t pick another destroyer of men remember you made a choice to date her so YOU made the wrong choice so you can make a different choice. The right choice
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+1 yIn my opinion men do the same exact thing both partys have their faults
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@ManOnFire both of my ex’s my father my grandfather my sisters ex and my uncle ….
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@ManOnFire yes the have literally ruined women and acted like it was game ….
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@ManOnFire my last ex literally made it a game so yes I mean for fun as if they have nothing better to do
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+1 ybecause they are sick, and pathetic though some guys do it as well. i would never ever take joy in hurting anyone
50 ReplyPartly because the men in particular didn’t sniff out the red flags and even if they did they would be too much of a simp to hold them accountable.
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Asker+1 y@snakeyes7 There is some truth in what you say. We really need to tell men to trust their instincts. That little voice in the back of your head is rarely wrong.

There might be a small number of man-haters like this nasty bitch in the picture, but most women don't want to destroy anyone.
10 ReplyWhy do some men do it too? Because they’re sadistic, because they’re narcissistic? Because they’re messed up? They’re sociopaths? Stay sway from them duh!
20 ReplyIt's both ways. My husband destroyed me by having a affair for years and sexting many other women aswell. Now he wants me to welcome him with open arms and treat him like nothing changed while he's now living with the women and his newborn? No. I'm a manipulate bitch whenever he trys to reach out. And he still continues to do so. I'll never understand why
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Asker+1 y@maria7084. You drove him to other women.
Asker+1 y@maria7084 You should not have driven your husband away by nagging the living shit out of him.
Asker+1 y@maria7084. You got the ring than turned into super bitch, this is why he cheated and eventually left you.
Asker+1 yYou treated him badly and drove him away. No sympathy.
Asker+1 y@NWPFPB Thrn 90% of women are cowards.
858 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Probably because they’ve been hurt by a lot of men.
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That's still no excuse.
I've been fed shit by women in almost every single one of my relationships. Do I go out of my way to treat other women that have nothing to do with them like crap? Absolutely not. Why? Because that would make me no better than those who willingly hurt me. The real one to blame when you're continuously getting hurt, is yourself. You have to take accountability and responsibility for your shitty choices of partners. I made bad choices, that's on ME. No one else.
In comes down full circle. This fucking crusade has to stop.
+1 yI would say at times it’s both genders and also both do it to themselves.
where one knowingly cheats on the other, like how stupid is that?
it’s self inflicted relationship death.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yTo be fair, a man often voluntarily puts himself at such risks and so the evil females come out and destroy these guys lives like ducks devouring a bowl of peas.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Aqss_mAbKJMsame can be said about the women, who mate with abusers.
it was their choice to risk themselves. That's what happens.11 Reply- +1 y
I want my friggin peas
+1 yCause after a lifetime of having every man i meet destroy me emotionally, its quite satisfying to hurt them for once. Cuck em and chuck em.
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Do you realize how stupid that statement is? '' Oh I've been hurt in the past, so I'm gonna hurt too ''
You made poor choices of men, you ate the shit they fed you time and time again. Accountability really is women's kryptonite. Take accountability for your poor choices of partners, instead of going into a crusade against the whole fucking opposite gender, simply because you've been hurt. That makes absolutely no fucking sense to me.
I've been hurt in the past, I made shitty choices, and I probably stayed longer than I should have. That's MY bad choices, and that's on ME. Just like YOUR shitty choices are on YOU.
If you think that is quite satisfying to get revenge on other men that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the ones who hurt you, there's something fucking wrong with you. Take accountability instead of deflecting the blame all around, ffs.
+1 yProbably they been treated like crap from other guys and think all guys are jerks so they treat them like crap
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+1 yWhy do so many men destroy women and act like they did nothing wrong and expect the women not to do anything about it? That may have something to so with it
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I know u didn't just ask that? U can't be serious
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"Yes you did Brett yes he did." I'm having too much fun with this
https://youtu.be/kxnsmsXYGJ4 - +1 y
What you're saying is essentially '' my neighbour punched me in the face, so I'm gonna punch a stranger on the street in the face ''. There is shitty human beings everywhere. Men and women. But there is also good people everywhere. Men and women.
Just because a couple jerks wronged you, doesn't make it a reason or a justification to voluntarily and go out of your way to hurt someone else, who might have, for ONCE in your life, your best interest at heart. Just vet who you date accordingly and don't jump head over heels into a relationship without knowing that person better. Takes about 90 days to get the true colours of someone to come out. 3 months isn't that long. At that point, I'm not emotionally anchored to a girl and I still can dip out anytime. Just do the same instead of blaming men for your misfortune.
Control your emotions, and just think with real logic and reason. Will save you a ton of heartache.
It's something I'll never understand. No matter how shittily I've been treated I would never do the same to someone else.
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+1 yI think this is caused by built up frustration with no communication on either side also I think it goes both ways.
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Wow Lauren u are fucking fine. 9165300922 please text my cell.
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Respectfully no thanks.
Asker+1 y@bigyouknowhat69 Dude, really?
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Wild right
463 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Men and women will always be at odds with each other. Simply because of experiences. I don't most women want to destroy men, their are some who do. I think ya just need to revise your taste before blaming others.
00 ReplyControl. Most of women's and men's issues come down to who is in control. In my observation, women care way more about control than men do.
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+1 yFor the same reason anyone wants to destroy anyone for fun. Both genders do it, and the ones that to are absolute dumpster fire pieces of shit.. Thankfully most aren't like that.
10 Reply The better question is why let another person affect you so deeply. Sure shot happens and people can be crappy but if you get destroyed take personal responsibility and make it better
10 ReplyNo one destroy other partner life for fun with out any reason traitor is on of common reason, you have to ask her
If she say i do it for fun so you have to blame yourself for not have a sense of choosing the right girl from the beginning.00 Reply- 1.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yWhat about the many men that hurt and destroy women?
Nevertheless, to answer your question evil women are sent to destroy wicked men.
Good men are blessed with good women, the wicked are cursed by wicked women.00 Reply
+1 yIts not normal behaviour.. its lack of empathy. Stay far away from these people..
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yBecause there are many women in this world.. all comes down to numbers.. but surely most women don't do that.
One should maybe rather ask why one gets attracted to those kind of women if it is a pattern.00 Reply
+1 yWhy do so many men do the same to women? It's because they're psychopaths.
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Yep, and psychopathy is not the norm.
Jon Tucker must die is a good movie to model after with respect to dealing with girls who do that.
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+1 yThis has been my most recent experience as well. I think it is the lack of respect and the ability makes then feel powerful. Also I find that narcissism is on the rise in women too.
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+1 yBecause the men are stupid. i mean I enjoy my life if some bitch is going to come and fuck all that I have up? shit I don't hit women. But I would beat shit out of a bitch come fucking with me.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThey never have to face any consequences, these are the same women who later turn around and wail 'Where are have all the good guys gone' and wonder why they get no further than a couple of date if that.
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+1 yI don't have any female friends that do that, but if there's an female equivalent to "Chad" well I imagine that's who's doing it.
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+1 y00 Reply 379 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I think the male ego is as fragile as an egg and women don't understand that. Anyone that hurts other people as a sport on purpose has a severe mental disorder or is just evil.
00 ReplyEither to get even at all men for their fathers groping them, ex-boyfriends abusing them or some women just have nothing going on of value going on in their lives so they go fucking over men for fun.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWhy does a cat sharpen it's claws on a scratching post.
10 ReplyNature of the beast.
What men have to do is not allow themselves to be vulnerable.11 Reply- +1 y
Or simply just to set healthy boundaries, command respect, call out the woman on her bullshit behaviour, stop acting like simps, and if that is not respected, kick her out the door.
The same is applicable to women as well. But my guess is if some women do that to men, it's because they don't respect them and haven't been put in their place with their BS. A woman can't love a man she doesn't respect.
+1 yWomen love to play games, women are just hard to read sometimes, and they must enjoy the ability to make men question their sanity.
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Well it's a game you're not forced to play. When I notice she's playing games, I dip out. Walk away and never look back. Women have to know that if they push you too far, you're gonna walk away and never look back.
I'm not playing games, love is not supposed to be a game. It's supposed to be effortless. Having to play games is putting effort that is not at all necessary.
+1 yIt goes both ways. Us guys do it to girls too. Why? It makes them feel superior since ones who do this usually have anger issues towards the opposite sex (perhaps from past experiences)
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+1 yMy ex tried, but failed. Later she admitted in a phone call that everything she said was a lie to try and destroy my life. I recorded it and have let others listen.
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+1 yA wise man once said ," Girls ain't shit but tricks and hoes."
00 ReplySame reason why guys want casuals & friends with benefits but destroy the girl that has feelings. I been through it, it's pretty cruel
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Just because you have a friends with benefits, it doesn’t make you a player or womanizer.
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I only did that in college when I literally had no time for anything.
I know some people do it their whole life. - +1 y
Really? I thought many more did such?
+1 yWomen suck that’s why. They are bored and want to tear you apart emotionally until you become the badguy
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That is because you allow them to. Put your big boy pants on and put your boundaries up, and make sure she respects them. Otherwise, break it off.
They might be whores or feminists, that can't find a guy to control. But some men seem to do that too.
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+1 yBecause they know that the guy their with can and will do better so she tries to ruin him for the next girl because she wasn’t woman enough to keep a good man
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThe same reason, many men destroyed women for fun. People are selfish.
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Some are, I agree. Not everyone though.
You can't put ostrich eggs in a chicken egg basket.
+1 yIt is not Their Fault
YOU are WEAK , YOU let YOURSELF get too attached..10 Reply- 815 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yThey try to change a guy, which ends up. destroying the guy.
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Because they allow it. Setting up healthy boundaries and being respected by your woman will stop that BS. You can compromise for someone, but if you have to change the essence of who you are for someone, they're not the right person for you.
Like I said in a previous reply, a woman can't love a man she doesn't respect. Make her respect you, and she'll be deep in love with you.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThey are bad people whit no concern for anyone but themselves. They are selfish creatures by their very nature. Thankfully there are a still a small handful of good ones left
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+1 yThe world may never know why, because they wasn't thinking.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAs we all know that this world we are Into revolves round so whatever men do for fun women also do to catch fun 50/50.
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Hey Amber Heard, when did men start a movement like #killallmen? Oh yeah, we didn't. Nice sociopathathy though. Did that work with your dad before he left?
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