Why do so many women destroy men for fun?

[Anonymous]

[YesICan]

Guess what, both genders can be toxic, and both genders hurt each other. All of you who are arguing who hurts who more, just stop it's dumb and completely unnecessary as al it's doing is adding fuel to the fire. Y'all are basically arguing on who's pile of shit smells worse, the answer is that both stink the same way.

It's a circle, some men hurt women just cause they can, the same way some women hurt men for the exact same reason. And then most of the time the people ( both men and women) who got done wrong in the past don't know how to cope with the trauma so they engage into the same toxic and destructive behavior.

As I said, it's a circle and everyone hurts everyone (both intentionally and unintentionally). No gender is perfect, everyone can be a toxic sack of shit or a clueless person that doesn't even realize that it's inflicting pain to others.

[Slartybartfast]

Because they can.

My ex told me "I destroy men". I've been hanging out with her boyfriend from highschool lately, poor guy will probably be dead soon. I'm surprised ether of us are still alive. Nether of us have dated again after that relationship.

We were talking about both ending our lives on her birthday but decided that she would probably like that, women have giant egos these days.

She told me once she always wanted to break a man's hart and have him long for her the rest of his life.

Women like to destroy men, they have been taught men are all evil and it's ok to hurt us, even a good thing to do so.

[Asker]

Brutal as fuck. I think your ex is at least being honest when so many women are like this.

[Asker]

Someone needs to end her.

[Spongebobssocks]

@Slartybartfast

That's horrible! She is pure evil. Dont listen to her. There are good women out there but its rare.. cause good humans overall is rare. Dont end it if anything have her killed

[Asker]

@Spongebobssocks There are only a tiny percentage of fundamentally good women , around 3-5%. Overwhelmingly, men just want to find a single woman to build a future with, but these women have been so damaged by social media and being promiscuous, that they are incapable of staying with a basic, good man.

I would put the morals and virtue of an average man against an average woman any day.

[Spongebobssocks]

I understand that but even you now said good women do exist so!!!

[Asker]

@Spongebobssocks There some good women, but they are found and wifed up quickly by good men. I do know a couple of amazing, Godly, happily married women.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay but try to look for good women that are single

[ItsMeElliana]

wdym by "so many" tho bruh not all women are the same, a "few" or "some" would've been suitable for that question.
isn't it the man's fault of choosing her over millions of other better women? most men just choose girls by their looks and if she looks hot and stuff, some might be immature and don't care about the man I don't know tbh I've actually never really seen or know if there's women who do ruin men's lives and I don't either or have any friends who would do that tbh

[doopayo]

Free entertainment 👹

[SneakiBreeki]

*Daddy issues and narcissistic personality disorder intensifie*

[doopayo]

I’m joking

[doopayo]

You must be real fun at parties

[Relux47]

She’s “joking” man so it’s all good

[doopayo]

The question makes no sense anyways. Last time I checked women aren’t transformers. We can’t destroy men lol.

And don’t be like that, my best friends a boy 🙄 I’m inclusive with it

[Relux47]

Yeah y’all can so stop the cap. Your boy best friend should blink twice if he needs help

[doopayo]

NEVER, he’ll be stuck in my basement along with my pet rats forever.

It’s ok though, they like it there

[Assi2k]

@doopayo did you just pull the “I’m friends with…” card? Bruhh

That didn’t work for racism and it doesn’t work for this

[doopayo]

It’s not that deep

[ManOnFire]

Women destroy the men who they see as weak, gullible, and easy to use, aka 'simps' or 'beta males.'

But women will also let themselves be destroyed by men who they think are the definition of a real man but know they do not really care about her. Even when these guys have cheated on them, used them financially, or hurt them in any other ways, these women will still keep going back. Or literally hold on to foolish hope that the guy will change or choose her.

[VanillaSalt]

Let’s be honest… the only way to stop women from taking advantage of men is to change divorce laws. The only way to stop men is women not putting out first date like some whore. Ironic how women’s fix is so much easier and in their control. Truth be told it’s their fault if they pick wrong and give it up so easy… sorry not sorry

[NWPFPB]

So if you can con a woman into having sec with you, it’s ok to destroy her?
What responsibility does the man have as far as not putting out on the first date?
Typical man-goat reply.

[VanillaSalt]

@NWPFPB we’re not talking about what’s right and wrong we’re talking about what happens. When you open yourself up to someone they have more ability then most to hurt you.

In regards to your second question though I have from a trustworthy source that women like men chasing them. If men weren’t interested in women then you wouldn’t have that chase. What % of men do you think would pursue women if sex wasn’t a component. No sex means no children as well so who would pursue women without a thought of sexual desire or procreation? Besides this it’s not on men to not have sex but women. You hold the lion share of the risk. You women get pregnant and risk pain and death and financial and social ruin compared to mens financial ruin… more risk means you have to be more vigilant.

[PhantomxForce]

Women don't like men chasing them like a dog. It's pretty much the other way around. They love the thrill of the chase. Women (generally speaking) want what they can't have. If they feel they can have you easy, they lose interest pretty quick.

If you don't believe me, try reaching out to a women every day, and then tell me what happens. She's gonna back off, and if you push, she's gonna ghost you and disappear. Women love to feel validated. When they have to chase for your attention and validation, their attraction for you creeps up.

I didn't invent the wheel. That's just how attraction works. Masculine energy grows through challenge, feminine energy grows through praise (aka attention and validation). If you go slightly slower than she is, she will run AFTER you, not FROM you. I learnt that stuff pretty quick and it honestly changed my whole dating life.

[Anonymous]

Serpent is venomous it's not serpent's fault but that's how God made it. Similarly are women are made that way too. Eve destroyed Adam by first eating the forbidden fruit later feeding the same fruit to Adam. That's why god cursed Eve. But God also cursed Adam as well. Adam had to suffer as well because of Eve's fault. If you follow Christianity, then you know all women symbolises Eve and men Adam. There's only way to protect yourself from such evil ( Eve ate the fruit in the influence of evil ) avoid women as much as you. Or be prepared to be ruined!

[NWPFPB]

Stop misrepresenting the stories of God. Adam was right next to Eve when she was tricked by the snake (not an actual snake) into eating the apple (not an actual apple). Adam was told by God to inform Eve about the Tree of Life, and he chose to twist God’s words and tell Eve a different story… which is why Eve fell for the snake’s con. Eve had never heard the exact words of God because Adam didn’t do what God told him to do. Adam then ate the apple too, immediately after Eve took a bite, because he SAW it did no harm to Eve. Eve did not convince Adam to eat the apple. Adam stood right next to Eve while she was tricked and watched her eat the apple, like his Guinea pig, and only took his own bite when he assumed it was safe to do so.
If anyone cares to read the ancient Hebrew version of the story of Adam and Eve, you will that the thousands of years of misogynistic spin is not in the actual tale.

Eve was tricked and Adam was the one who disobeyed God.
This is why the punishment is that Adam will become more distant from God and live in his head, but rule over the world, while Eve will remain close to God and live in her heart and instincts, while Adam oppresses her just as he oppressed God’s word in the garden.
It’s all symbolic.
The tragedy that this tale has been spun around to blame Eve is one of the greatest and saddest pieces of irony in all of human history.

[Asker]

Anonymous. Well said and on point!

[llElectrifyll]

That's like asking why are manipulators being manipulators?

Because they can. That's the point of evil - to do it because you can.

Now, evil is NOT connected or unique to gender/sex. It's not just many women, there's also many men that destroy women just for fun too.

Evil is everywhere, that's why we should stop it or avoid it.

[HighValue]

Not only that, they are happy to ruin their kid's childhood and use them as a weapon to screw over the father too. they don't care how much they hurt their own kids as long as it hurts their ex too.
Just work in elementary schools and you will see that is very common.

[fox1111]

I was badly destroyed by a guy , he dated me while preparing for a wedding. How do you think I felt when I found out? He even met my parents. But some day he told me that his parents wants him to marry that girl for some reasons and there’s nothing he can do.
After that you kinda don’t feel pity for your partner
I know it’s completely wrong, but you just don’t feel it anymore
It’s more like if I won’t destroy him he will destroy me
I found out that I have no problem to complete forget a guy even after we had an amazing time together.

[Agape93]

Same reason so many men destroy women for fun. Because so many people in the world are complete pieces of shit.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

As much as I wish it wasn't the case sadly it is and I agree... just gotta find your people and forget about the rest of the shitheads!

@Agape93 you said along the same lines I was thinking... I was thinking how do I say that nicely then read yours and thought damn thats exactly it!! Your incredible just saying it as it is!

The good ones are incredibly rare these days even bad ones look good at first so trust yourself above all else and I am sorry that your experience with women has been horrible.. its not just a woman thing its a human thing.. the world is fucked to the core and you deserve better!

Dont give your dignity to any woman keep it and your better off without her! Dont let someone else define you... your valuable all on your own you dont need someone else to complete you.. you are ALREADY complete!!! I understand you want someone but the more important thing is do they add value to your life? If not your better off on your own! Follow what gives you peace!

[Agape93]

💜💜

[WowwGirl]

I second what @Agape93 said

[ArrowheadSW]

I've only had that happen to me once, when I was in my mid-twenties and I was dating a co-worker. She made sure she made my life at work miserable after we split up, and for no good reason. She never did tell me what her issue was with me. I had to change jobs to get out of the situation. But that was good to do anyway.

[DonkeyDan]

Same as why men do it I guess, they are just in training for when it's an Olympic sport.
Paris 2024 Olympics, women's and men's singles freestyle opposite gender destruction semi finals 🤣🤣

[CaliGirlBH]

Honestly I don't know any woman that purposly tried to destroy a man for fun.

Women can be shady just as men however its such a heartless act and I'm one who believes in karma. Those that are heartless and don't care about men will one day experience what they have dished out.

[chapawapa]

Hmmm I was going to say we don't. But reading some of the female comments I guess we do

[TheBigGuy9]

I love it when (and this goes for anything) people write something and then have no clue that you had such reaction to said comment.

[PrettyPriya]

Uncertain that "so many" is accurate. I certainly don't and don't have any female friends that do or have.

[SaoirseS]

@PrettyPriya. Same here.

[PrettyPriya]

@HavicZero please do not post offensive comments. Thanks.

[Bamababe03]

In my opinion men do the same exact thing both partys have their faults

[ManOnFire]

Do you actually know of men who have destroyed women for fun?

[Bamababe03]

@ManOnFire both of my ex’s my father my grandfather my sisters ex and my uncle ….

[ManOnFire]

@bamababe03 But for actual FUN? Like what the asker is talking about?

[Bamababe03]

@ManOnFire yes the have literally ruined women and acted like it was game ….

[Bamababe03]

@ManOnFire my last ex literally made it a game so yes I mean for fun as if they have nothing better to do

[ManOnFire]

@bamababe03 No more questions, your honor.

[Bamababe03]

@ManOnFire ok

[humpbackjack]

Evil same as the men that do it to women what you have to do is figure out why you picked her and change that about you so you don’t pick another destroyer of men remember you made a choice to date her so YOU made the wrong choice so you can make a different choice. The right choice

[readyplayer001]

because they are sick, and pathetic though some guys do it as well. i would never ever take joy in hurting anyone

[Snakeyes7]

Partly because the men in particular didn’t sniff out the red flags and even if they did they would be too much of a simp to hold them accountable.

[Asker]

@snakeyes7 There is some truth in what you say. We really need to tell men to trust their instincts. That little voice in the back of your head is rarely wrong.

[MarkRet]

There might be a small number of man-haters like this nasty bitch in the picture, but most women don't want to destroy anyone.

[Sarahr123]

Why do some men do it too? Because they’re sadistic, because they’re narcissistic? Because they’re messed up? They’re sociopaths? Stay sway from them duh!

[maria7084]

It's both ways. My husband destroyed me by having a affair for years and sexting many other women aswell. Now he wants me to welcome him with open arms and treat him like nothing changed while he's now living with the women and his newborn? No. I'm a manipulate bitch whenever he trys to reach out. And he still continues to do so. I'll never understand why

[Asker]

@maria7084. You drove him to other women.

[HavicZero]

Men don't just cheat for no reason. You treated him badly and are surprised he cheated on you. Nice integrity there Amber Heard.

[Asker]

@maria7084 You should not have driven your husband away by nagging the living shit out of him.

[NWPFPB]

False. There is never an excuse for cheating. Only cowards cheat.

[NWPFPB]

@HavicZero False. Lots of men cheat for no reason. It’s a game to them. Cheating is cowardice. Some people cheat and some don’t. It really is that simple.

[Asker]

@maria7084. You got the ring than turned into super bitch, this is why he cheated and eventually left you.

[Asker]

You treated him badly and drove him away. No sympathy.

[Asker]

@NWPFPB Thrn 90% of women are cowards.

[Flower7]

Probably because they’ve been hurt by a lot of men.

[PhantomxForce]

That's still no excuse.

I've been fed shit by women in almost every single one of my relationships. Do I go out of my way to treat other women that have nothing to do with them like crap? Absolutely not. Why? Because that would make me no better than those who willingly hurt me. The real one to blame when you're continuously getting hurt, is yourself. You have to take accountability and responsibility for your shitty choices of partners. I made bad choices, that's on ME. No one else.

In comes down full circle. This fucking crusade has to stop.